How fast do you recover from a break up?

well, I only had one ex, we didn't really last long but it was difficult to recover because he was my first boyfriend. I finally gotten over him when I met someone else (who is my husband now), and that's about 3 months later after we broke up. Before I met my husband, I thought those were the worst days of my life, (now I think I was silly). But I could never be thankful enough that my ex and I broke up, otherwise I wouldn't have met my husband.

A year is enough for you to totally move on

oh. sorry to hear that. but i am glad that you are happy now with your present girlfriend. true that it's always difficult to get on with life and start living again after each breakup. it's just like putting back our broken pieces one by one to make us whole again. takes time and patience. but after sometime when we accept reality that that person is no longer a part of us, we can move on and just learn from it. i have difficulties in recovering after break ups especially when i broke up with my ex because he cheated on me. that truly hurts. most of the time, i spend many days, weeks, months and at times, years in pondering what could have gone wrong. but it's like. all we need to do is be strong enough to face reality... anne

With my ex it was pretty fast only because I lost interest in him within the last three-four years and was just in the relationship for the sake of being in it. I know it sounds selfish but he was not ready to settle down, marry and raise a family and I was, so I finally left with the help of a friend, who is now my husband. I couldn' be more happier :)

Breaking up is not that easy. It's very easy to say, Let go and move on but it's very hard to do. But breaking doesnt mean it's the end of the world. You should think that she's not meant for you the person and right person that was destined for you will come in no time, just wait.. But if two of you were meant to be, maybe it's not yet the right time for both of you, who knows, your path will meet again and be together when the right time comes.. Breaking up with someone, letting go the person free and being happy for him/her on whatever decision he/she made is the bravest thing to do. If you really love the person, let him/her go.. Breaking up recovery depends on how you handle the break up, if you are willing to forget her you can! Make some productive things, go out with friends, but most of all, think over the things that made your relationship sink so that next time, you know what to do and not to do on your next relationship. Oh well relationship is like a tango, it consist of two person, even though you give your best to that person if that person don't love you that much, well it's useless, it's only one sided love if that's the case and that's so hard to make it last..

when i broke up to my last boyfren its easy for me to recover, i dont know,maybe im not that girl who love him so much.. thats why for me its so easy to forget him.one reason also is because he's liar

I need almost a year. And even that happen because this one guy was so sweet. Even though i reject him few times, he still show the care and sweetness as a friend. That really moved my heart and i still going out with him. Thisaugust will be our 4th anniversary and he is still as sweet as the first time he try to get me. Live is very beautiful when we go through it with the right person. But past relationship really helps you grow and learn your mistakes.

Well the longest time i recovered from a break-up was like 3 months and i was actually down and out but one day my best friend called me up to tell me i was going to die if i continued like this. He told me i needed to like get my acts together and move on if i was to remain my whole self

There is one person in my life that I still am not over, and we have been apart for 2 years now. He is the father of my child, and I miss him terribly. He will be coming home in 2010, and hopefully, we will be back together then. He wants to be with me as well, and raise our daughter together. But, right now, circumstances won't allow us to physically be together. When we broke up, I was crushed. I didn't get into another relationship for 6 months, but then, caved in to lonliness. But, Im still not over him, nor do I think I ever will be.

it depends on whether you love her or not and how much you love her.if you love her unconditionally them it really hurts.i think 1 year is a long time to recover.and the best way to forget and to recover is to date another girl as early as possible.that will definately relax you a bit.my suggestion is dont take any relation seriously just enjoy life as much you can.

i don't think i ever recovered from my break up.. but i moved on., and its ok. you never seem to forget the people you love, and have loved. But, you cant live your life without letting it go. There is always a reason for your break up, and if you don't know it now, you will years from now. you can look back, and see that it wasn't the right person, and the action you take to move on and away from this experience will become the way your life plays out later. good luck, and don't look back!

Is my hart will break up I will thoght about my fault. I agree my mistake. Because I want to be relatonship.

If this is the case for me, it will take time to recover from such bad happening...I use to think what wrong I made..Why such a punishment to me...any way you are too cool now..have good times...Cool

Eh, I never really loved any of my exes. They are exes for a reason. I have only ever loved my husband. It would take me a while to get over him, but he's not going anywhere so it's all good!

evn i few mnths back broke wit the love of my life and it ws not easy after tht. i thnk i still m hung on to him and its been over 6 mnths now. i guess ths is the longest i hv been hung on to the past.