Mylot, loneliness and friendship

at times, i feel the same way too.. everytime i feel so alone or sad, all i can do is write something here... or even in my blogs in friendster

Maribea, we are here to cheer you up. summer,winter,spring time & harvest we are happy by the grace of God.You have to open your hearts and tell us you difficulties then it will be easier for you.

just like love, friends can be found anywhere and anytime... even in the most bizaare situations and even during unexpected times. they come along giving a smile into our hearts. although people come and go. they leave a mark in our lives that one day, we met and shared good and bad moments with them. hoping that someday, our roads will cross again. i feel down sometimes and even angry. and it's only in myLot where i can release those negative feelings at. a lot of people here are willing to listen, give advices and even just give us the courage to stay on the race of life. there are myLot people who are even there for us making it sure that we are doing okey. thing is, they do worry, too. i am amazed on how myLot has brought people from around the globe together. and finding YOU as a friend (who always need a hug by the way... hehe.. kidding!) is one great thing i'll always be thankful for being in myLot... anne

oh maribea, you are not alone, i can relate to that completely. sometimes, i feel lonely, secluded, sad, i want to do so many things biot i can't , i feel a strange numbness engulfs me. in those times, mylot helps me let go my sadness. i feel elevated with the exchange of thought processes. my friends, like you, kind of, help me a lot to live again. thank you for being my friend.

I count Mylot as an extension of my real world acquaintances and friends. I am a busy lady so no time to be lonely. Could always go to the library and meet a couple of people or the mall and maybe even shop and talk to a couple of people. There is so many ways to be around and find conversation if you really need or want to. Good luck with this.

Mylot is a great community. I tell everyone that. A lot of people on here are very genuine, knowledgable and compassionate. The only issue I see with the Internet in general is that there are a lot of lonely people out there and instead of getting out and becoming active they are coming online and having all kinds of online friends. This is good but also bad because they aren't getting the one on one face to face interaction that we all as humans need.

Maribea, we all have times of loneliness, feeling down and sad. Whenever I post something that makes me feel blue, my friends at MyLot gather around and pick me up with their kind words and happy thoughts. I am glad that we have connected. Huggers to you.

"Today I found a friend who knew everything I felt she knew my weakness and the problems I've been dealt. She understood my wonders and listened to my dreams, she listened to how I felt about life and love and knew what it all means." I am glad to have you as my friend..:) (((((((maribea)))))))

If you ever feel like you need to talk, just PM me and I'll answer the PM as soon as I see it. It doesn't feel good to be lonely, but I agree that people in MyLot are very good at easing the pain of loneliness. : )

me too, i always feel that way especially when i'm broke and no money to spend to go to some places that relaxes me...so i spend more time here in mylot to try to gain friends...read inspiring responses and very comforting words...it really entertains me and somehow let's forget me forget that i have huge problems ahead of me...and just by being here and posting my responses...has really made me express what my thoughts are about very important issues...things that i would not normally think about and would consider a very deep thinking and now i am doing it which cool and very relaxing and hey...it is life...and that is what it is all about and there is nothing really special about...so simple, so beautiful....duh..duh..duh...duh

Hello,maribea,I am also very happy to meet more friends here,i will not feel lonely when i am in mylot,i can have a lot of good interactions with other members here, we try to support each other and share our own experiences and help people to get over the hard times. It is a good place to write as other people will read your stories in detail and you can get advise from others.

I know what u mean here. I can be very low and come on here to mylot and start posting and sharing ideas with my friends on here and i feel better in no time. There are so many caring and loving people here on mylot and i am so lucky to have found them. I can express my feelings and everyone trys to help out and also i can help others who pour out there hearts in times of need.

Yes thats the same for me. I could air out my feelings of frustration and happiness here too... plus the feel of knowing that someone exp the same way really helps alot :) c",)

yes,sometimes I have the same feeling as you.then I also like to surf on mylot,here I can express my feeling and share happiness or sadness here. If I have a good new,or feel happy,lots of friends will congratulate to me,according to that,I will feel happier. but if I get a bad mood,all of them will comfort me,and give me some advices. in conclusion,mylot give me a lot pleasure.

I came up (I work down floor)just to take the launch with my son ,do a cup of coffee and go back to my work(yes I work even Sunday)so taking a hug is really very helpfully.

I can't agree with you more.Mylot is always here....sometimes we can just come and read if we fell tired or response and fell a part of a big family.Can make us forget for while what going on at our live and as you say can help a lot when we fell alone. It's not problem that we can't see each other....I believe these sometimes can help even more.I mean is more easy to ask a hug or tell your problem to someone you will not need face tomorrow.These can make us shy or fell awkward but here at mylot we don't. I hope you include me at your friends too...more hugs and kisses.

Hi, maribea, you are right. Mylot kill the lonelyness. Actually prior to joining mylot I used to waste time without doing anything constructively. I always used to feel depressed due to my old bad memories. Now, after joining Mylot I started feeling better because I can use the extra time in expressing my thoughts by answering to their questions and also it helps to know lot of people's feeling about their outlook on different subject.

We have desame emotions sometimes, actually I will to post one right now but I saw your discussion and I prefer to answer itcoz the topic is relevant. I feel lonely right now from the morning I wake up till now my loneliness is in my heart I can't say the reasons why. But your right mylot is the best remedy for these kind of situation that we can exprresed our through feelings and somehow even not actually seen our friends in person we really feel they are here and present in this moment of loneliness in our lives. But don't worry maribea it will pass maybe tomorrow happiness will come to both of us.

Well, Maribea, I am hoping you are not feeling lonely today. I also like Mylot, especially because it puts an individual perspective on international issues. I think that is the best thing about Mylot, that there are people from all over sharing their views. I wouldn't get to chat with people from Italy all that often, otherwise!

Maribea, you don't need to feel lonely. All of us are here, to share your feelings and to make you happy. Even though we don't really know each other and we are just your cyber friends, we do care about each other. If you are lonely, come and talk to us here. Let have an open discussion here to cure your loneliness. I fully understand your feelings cause it happened to me before. May joy be with you always!