if you find your GF/BF cheated on you with another girl/boy?

i'd probably first confront him about it n find out why he did it. but whatever it is, i think cheating is pretty inexcusable and unforgivable. jus shows lack of respect for the relationship.

for me it doesnt matter if i am the reason why he cheated on me. If he has a problem with me, we can talk it over anytime. But the fact that he cheated on me loses my trust in him and it's hard to bring back that trust again.

If I find my GF/BF cheating with me, I will act the same way he/she act and will make friendship with his/her best friend. I will prove that I am truely in love and she is wrong in what it doing.

I think it depends on the situation. First, most people cheat because they are lacking something, either emotionally or physically, in their current relationship. So I guess I'd have to sit down and talk to my partner and ask what is wrong in our relationship, and is it something that can be fixed? That being said, when you get caught cheating it puts a big strain on an already strained relationship and can be hard to overcome.

First, i would definitely ask him why he cheated me. I will listen to him if his explanations true or his just making his making its own so that i wont get hurt. Second, ill ask him if he has any problems with our relationship thats why it came up having another girl to be with. Third, if he says that i have something in me that i should change thats why she replaces me then im very willing to change it just to save our relationship. Lastly, if he says that he just fall out of love then i dont have any reasons to keep him coz i will never be happy if i still push our relationship eventhough he finds another girl.