which will you choose?

Wow..those are very tough options. can I choose OR? :) Maybe I would choose being single and miserable if that would mean making other people happy. Anyway, I could always choose either to prolong the misery or be done with it. Unlike when Im married, it would be hard to go out of the "misery" since I made a promise to be with my husband for better or for worse.

Hi bluishrose, i'm single and looking for my life partner.

neither of the two. both are senseless and lifeless. no man is an island so i cant stay single forever. on the other hand, being married with the wrong guy is also like being single and miserable.

married. the negative wishing will get me into action of leaving or divorcing the jerk. i insist on this choice. the single and miserable, we'll it sounds like you're not attractive enough to find a relationship. that's a scary thought. misery and boredom can kill too. so being married, at least you've been to both worlds and the experience can make you a wise philosopher of life.

single and find a way not to be miserable than married with some jerk :)

I'll choose to be single while finding ways not to feel miserable rather than be in a relationship that makes your heart broke over and over again.

I think there are stories of having a good relationship last, for those who are "happily married and living "LIFE"!;) I'll rely on that story, I guess!;) Life's a journey, as everybody says, and not a destination. We have to try and make the best out of what we have and what we get. Sometimes we think that we don't deserve this or that, but those are challenges that we have to face. We all have certain "nightmares", that we all wished would never come back and haunt us again. Everybody deserves to have a good and happy life, we just have to stay strong and keep the fire of "HOPE" burning!;)

It doesn't mean when you are single your life will be miserable. . .there are lots of people who never got married but they handle life normally. It is up to you if you let your self be miserable. . .marriage is not the only way to make a person happy or complete. . .

Married.