What do you think of the Ruffa-Yilmaz contoversy?

Philippines
June 10, 2007 11:50am CST
i can't help but pitty ruffa as she tells her story on the buzz today...even before they're married, according to ruffa, yilmaz gets violent when he's angry. if that's the case why didn't she left him before?..i want to know what you guys think about it?
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@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I was able to listen to both sides, I think both of them committed mistakes. It's really bad that Ylmas was hitting Ruffa, he should no do that. Speaking of Ruffa, I don't know why did you marry Ylmas since you're still married to another guy. The problem is very completicated now, you let the whole world know what kind of life the both of you have lived. But it's okey...you're earning a lot now.
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
11 Jun 07
watched the buzz and star cental last weekend, I was able to watched the interview with ylmazz and ruffa. I used to side with ylmazz but when ruffa revealed the real reason why she left him I finally realized that she's very pitiful. I always thought that she is very lucky since she married a very rich guy but when that guy became violent for any reason at all then I guess its best that she left him. Men are not supposed to hurt a woman at all.
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• Philippines
14 Jun 07
from the looks of it ruffa is trying to outshine kris. LOL seriously, in all probability ylmaz could have really beaten ruffa. since we have different culture it's possible that beating wife is just an ordinary thing with turks. like for example in ancient korea beating a child's legs for committing a mistake is part of their culture. it's some sort of discipline. it just so happen that Filipinos do not agree with beating. that's probably why ruffa married ylmaz even when she knows that he has this violent streak. perhaps she thinks that for love she could endure that kind of life. unfortunately, mothers could not allow that to happen in their children. i believe that behind the divorce decision of ruffa was her mother's prodding. annabelle was afraid for ruffa's well being.
@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I'm on Yilmaz' side. Ruffa always wants to be the center of attention so she f**ks things up just to get into the limelight. I wouldn't blame Yilmaz if he ever did hit her because if I had a wife like Ruffa, I probably couldn't stand her either and start hitting her too (I'm a girl, btw). Also, what's with this "cultural differences" she's blabbing about? They've known each other for so long but she only notices their cultural differences now? That's such a lie... Seriously.
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
yup, no license to hit. but if somebody really got on your nerves, and start badmouthing you, cheat on you, you wouldn't go around dancing, will you? it's not right to hit, but of course, where's the evidence? and what ylmaz said that it was just a slap. hell, a slap would be a miniscule payback for the humiliation the guy suffered from such a wife
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
True. Besides, I think Ruffa's lying anyway. She should have a bit more shame. She's already married but she acts like she isn't. Also, about their kids, she should respect the privacy of Yilmaz' family. She shouldn't have pitted her daughters into showbiz without consulting her husband first. Maybe that's one of the last straws that broke Yilmaz' back.
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
i think ruffa, as always, tends to think that she is very outspoken. as of now, i really can't be able to make myself believe ruffa. in the end, they earn money, hog the spotlight, etc.. it's just showbusiness..