What if he gets violent on you?...

Leave at once and report it to the police and get as many reports as you can for future refrances. My daughter is in this mess right now... She booted her ex out 3 years ago...has had to move 4 times to avoyed his stalking her... changed her phone number 16 times and finally ripped the phone out of the apartment where she stays... She was awared custidy of her son and he thinks he owns her... he has no visitation or no contact with the son at all but still stalks her... there has been many of times where he has called my home and threatened me if I did not tell him where she lived or her number... I just tell him to come over and meet my attornies smith and wesson... but at the first signs of harsh words even get out off there quick... There are safe places to go to that treat people like this. Hugs Brenda

I tolerated abuse by a boyfriend years ago. I was afraid to leave and didn't tell anyone because I didn't think anyone would believe me. I forgave him every time. He kept saying he would never do it again..blah,blah,blah. I left him when he almost killed me. I don't think anyone should stay in an abusive relationship. It could escalate and end tragically.

If he did that for the first time, I might give him another chance if he asked for forgiveness. But if he'll do it again, i'll leave him to protect myself from being harmed again.