Is it okay for your besfriend to date your ex?
By Beth84
@Beth84 (88)
Philippines
5 responses
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I still haven't experience this kind of situation, but i think for me its no big deal. He is past already, history i should say and i dont care who he dates. As for my friend, she knows the guy our past so i guess she really likes him. Maybe they might turn out a great couple =D
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
11 Jun 07
You in mu opnion it is fine as long as you are completely over him. The other thing you should do is ask your friend not to tell you all the details of them being together considering you have been there done that you pretty much know how he is. Plus uou might feel bad if he does things diffrent with your friend than he did with you.
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@magnet (2087)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I would wonder out of all the men in the world why would she want to date my ex boyfriend. I would just feel sorry for her for taking on my old baggage.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
15 Jun 07
no. I don't even think about my ex. I have not seen him in years. I am completely over him. I am happily married. I just said that I would feel sorry for her meaning that if he was the same person he was years ago if it were going to turn to more than just a date I would feel sorry for her.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I think if you really don't care, and they really seem to like eachother than it would be fine. But I do think it is only okay for a friend to date an ex when you are REALLY TRULY okay with it. If you aren't, they aren't mind readers, you need to tell them.
But I think it is great that you don't mind.
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@liana_pescarus (1168)
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11 Jun 07
if he's my X there must be a reason why he is my X and i wouldn't want to hear stories about him or see him very often... so, no, for me it wouldn't be ok, even if i were over him.