understanding women?
@Dishwasherken (7)
United States
June 10, 2007 8:16pm CST
As a twice divorced man I think by my two marraiges that I have picked up some tips on how to be a better S/O but I still can't understand women.
Before you ask;no I'm not from outer space and I have tried to understand the other gender but it seems no matter what I do it is never good enough or they want more things done (and usually for them) with no regard for the man.
All I am looking for is a woman that will try to understand me as much as I want to understand them with a mutual respect for each other as a person.
I get Men putting down wives g/f etc and women doing the same to the man.I hope I have moved beyond all that petty stuff as I look for a meaningful relationship
I hope I can get some meaningful input into this because everybody I meet seems to have a women are women and Men are men attitude but that is an excuse and not an explanation.
How about it ladies any Ideas? And how about it guys;maybe we can get a better idea on how the women we supposedly love want to be treated and us men also have feelings and emotions.
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@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
11 Jun 07
I guess I can understand or even relate to what you are saying. Man has figured out how to put himself on the moon but not the inner workings of a woman's mind. Based on what I know, women get pissed when we try to solve their problems. Sometimes, they just want to whine and talk about their issues. When we try to solve it for them, they feel we don't care and are trying to shut them up. I mean, if they wanna whine, they should go to their girlfriends. Thatz what they are there for. lol
@Dishwasherken (7)
• United States
17 Jun 07
How about when they are mad at you and they tell everyone first and you are the last one to know.That pisses me off because if a woman is mad at me at least tell me first so I have some Idea what you are mad at me for.
And I'm not an unresonable man;I will try to work out our problems especially if I really did cause it.
@FSCAries (881)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Well the first thing that may be messing you up a little bit, is no two women are alike. Something that ticks one of us off royally could just be a drop in the buckett for another woman. I think you just have to look for someone that has a good heart and that person ought to be as concerned, if not more, about you as you are in them. Good luck with your search!
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@Dishwasherken (7)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Thanks. I have thought about that and believe me I always seem to pick the wrong kind of women.So now I'll relax abit and let one pick me.(I hope she knows what she is doing.LOl)
@Dishwasherken (7)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I agree with they all need love; but so do us men. We need to know that they are trying to understand us and I also know we make mistakes( I have made many) but I try to learn from my relationships and improve myself with the next lady
but to me understanding is a two way street
