Why Do Right People Meet The Wrong Ones?

Thats part of our lives, its hard to tell who's the right or who's the wrong one, when if you love, everything seems to be right. I guess love is just like that, others stay, others leave. Stay, because love grows stronger.. Leave, cause love gets weaker.

We meet the wrong persons before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person we will know to thank God for meeting the right one...

I spent a total of 17 yrs with two of the wrongest people ever in succession, life felt very unfair until '04 when I finally met the rightest one ever.I wish i could do all that time over, smrter and wiser, I know I'd still end up with miss rightest, I just wish the ride had been less bumpy!!

well.... i know what u mean!!! i always met the wrong ones lol. I think i went after the bad guys? thrill of the chase and excitement? anyway i met someone special nearly 3 years ago and we are still happily together with our daughter.. you just have to keep thinking thatthe right one is out there for you..... you will find them soon!!

I'm in the same boat... for some reason I meet these silly dudes who take me for a ride... its hard to open me up at first but they seem to find there way in eventually... so after going through this endless road I decided to focuse on my education, and career and like you its paying off... I also feel that love will come when the time is right and now its not right... and maybe then you will see... when a heart is pure you don't question them at all it all flows naturally... but when you get that gut feeling trust me its the right one...

opposite attract and it is a test for yourself.

I am sorry this happened to you. I know what you mean. I think that because we are so nice people think they can just walk all over us. I have had many bad relationships too. However...keep your head up and keep your self esteem and don't settle for someone who treats you badly..or cheats on you. You will find someone who will be nice to you eventually...just keep looking.

I also had a history of always meeting and dating the wrong guys, but one day - there he was - Mr right =) I am sure that with time u will find the one for you, and that she will appreciate all that u are and all that u are doing for her. Good luck

I had a similar problem. I always seemed to date people who were definitely wrong for me. I seemed to always date the same type of person. Until I met my husband. He was very different from anyone I had dated. I always dated men who had very strong personalities as I have. But my husband is just the opposite. He is a little shy and very very low key. And to my surprise it is the best relationship I have ever had. Maybe you should rethink the kind of person you are dating and start looking for a different type of person. It definitely worked for me.

This does happen a lot in life however, not always. In time, you will meet someone who's right for you. Just be positive and enjoy your time being single because u won't be forever!

I think it gets down to the Law of Attraction..... what you think about you bring about. If someone is too focussed on the fact that they attract the wrong people all the time, they will continue to attract the wrong people. Once thinking switches to focussing on the positive attributes you look for in a person, those people begin to show up in you life.

Hello fellowlife Maybe God save the best for last. why you sad for the girl like that? She is cheating on you,and she is not deserved to have your pure love. Cheers ups friend, love will find you if your try. A lot of good girl in this world that will be a perfect girlfriend for you. One day you will find the right on, or maybe you already meet her but you didn't realize. I wait so many time to find the right one, one of my ex betrayed me, the other is make me suffer, one is passed away. Maybe this situation can make you more mature. God bless you *angel www.beautycosmetictips.com

so that rite people may turn wrong to rite people. i think when God thinks that its time for their worng things meet an end HE brings rite peole close to wrong people!!!

i dont believe on that perception... the right partner in life is always given on the right time... i am juts a 17 year old kid but that's what i strongly believe... i had relationships that i also took seriously but we still ended up to a break up... i thought i would never find the right person or maybe it will take 5 long years before happiness will visit my heart. but there was a guy who really took my heart away... he proved to me the strong love he assures to me and the idealistic personality he has to make me feel secured and happy.. so dude... dont lose hope on the real happiness you are looking for. it's just arrroud you...

I definitely hear you on this topic and have experienced the same thing. I keep meeting the wrong types as the last few that I have dated all had attitude or personality issues. They were completely wrong for me. It seems difficult here to find someone nice, honest and sincere and who is not materialistic. I feel like I am a magnet for people who have lots of problems.

This is just because of believing on each and eveyone. All people are not so as we think. So first you decide what quality girl you need as a friend. Then look for someone. Wait for sometime and watch her behaviour. If she is fit to your choice then only go ahead. Cheater girl cannot act for long time. One day she will dispose off. Another thing is that the people are moving fast or say changing as world is changing minutely. Mentality of the people have become like so. Either you decline yourself with that atmosphere or wait patiently for best girl. Some change is also need of the hour as per your girl friend. Rigidity in anything may spoil your relation. This time you are confused, wait for sometime to start new relation. After relaxation look for someone dear, you will get good girl friend, I am sure.

This is a good post let me tell you that, well in the first place I think you are still in the stage where you cant handle commitments to its fullest. Well that's just my view. we learn from our mistakes dude dont just sit there go back into the saddle :) You might find the right one yet you just need to be more open to her "SINCERELY" look for a girl with similar interests and try to compete with her sometimes and make he a buddy of hers. This will lower down your wall and make you accessible to her. Dont loose hope man this is indeed a game of trail and error what counts is you gave your heart in the game and not pretended to give it.

That's a very hard question to answer exactly. I could only guess and assume that maybe it was just a mind set and a thought that the person they date is someone they thought they'd like.

yeah i agree, why do people end up with the person unworthy to be loved. not to sound cruel or anything, i suffered the same with some friends. i should have never been to caring an soft towards them. iys painful to everything you put to them are wasted away.

its not that a right people meet the wrong ones...its just that you haven't meet the right person yet...i'm like you before i always met a wrong person but then i never stop when im about to stopped, coz im thinking already of just wait and never look for that person anymore, the right person came and whola...that's it i never met any wrong person anymore cause we never let me go ;P...and men, never give your love 100%, you have to save some for yourself...:)