insecurities

let not other people become the source of your frustrations. As a famous talk show said 'you don't have to prove anything to anyone....it's not your problem when they reject you. It's theirs. Only stuck up idiots would require you to please them.

I had ever try hard to please everybody,but finally I realized that it can't work and it's unpractical.May be that we can't please everybody is a good thing, because it can make us to find the differences between different people and see how other people think, we can benefit from that.

Its true. I have experienced it many times in my life with some of my boss at my past and present work.

yes no matter how nice you are there are concieted people around that would claim they are nicer than you, rather than appreciating what a nice person you are. some people are blinded of what they think they are and forget to see the people around them. but for me no matter what you do just always be the nice person you are, you have to be true to yourself and the true you will shine.

It is impossible to pealse everyone you know simply because what is good/nice for you may not be so for the other person.One man's food is poison to another.Each person has his own view of the world and of good and bad.While you think that you have helped somebody,another may think you show too much pity or something like that.It is inevitable.Also,people have different expectations from us and so do we,When they are not met,there are bound to be differences.There you go!:)

yup...i feel that that is true...niceness will sometimes be mistaken by other people as an act of trying too hard to please others...