love marriage is more successful or arrange marriage?

India
June 11, 2007 2:16am CST
pl.guide me i m bit confused, which way to go.
2 responses
@kumarravi (145)
• India
11 Jun 07
In my view its not the thing that whether it is arranged ot love marraige since its a matter of life and love. If you have understand and having good relationship with the person you r living its a successful marraige. In general words the two persons who understand each other very well whether it is love or marraige the life will go smothly if not whether it is arranged or love it may break at any time. So understand your ideas and choose your lifepartner since its not for a minute its for whole life.
@Nafasg (30)
• Singapore
11 Jun 07
Dear friend, I will leave it up to you...cause i am not going to speculate anything... But for my point of view...LOVE MARRIAGE is more successful... WHY? You got to know one's personality better through datings..years of relationship will show one's true color..too..and from there you will know whether he or she is the right one for you..I know i did mentioned YEARS..but dont be fooled by that cause based on experience..sometimes it can go by months..by testing one's loyalty..towards another...there are various of ways..which you can learn.. There is a saying "Sometimes you have to let her/him go..but if he/she comes back to u...u know he/she is yours.." As for arrange marriage...well it do become successful back in the kampong days (no high rise buildings at that era)..ie old days..cause one's life is restricted by parents..have to come back home before dawn..no internet...etc.. To get to know each other is rather impossible during that era...hence the arranged marriage..( basically no options given) (i am sure those youngsters living in that era wish to have live in our era , more options of choices in life, most important thing, THE INTERNET A PLATFORM FOR ALL COMMUNICATIONS...like this very website..a forum) Now you have opportunities like the Internet, datings online etc..make the best of it..get to know your right one..your choice..of your love life..remember marriage is for a lifetime... --I wish you the best--- Cheers! =)