Should you invite some one home?
By nishdan01
@nishdan01 (3051)
Singapore
June 11, 2007 4:30am CST
Should you invite someone to your home, if the house is not neatly arranged. If you visit your friend's house, do you see whether the things are arranged neatly? Would you sit just in the drawing room or would you like to see other rooms? Do you like to be asked to see other rooms or you would see other rooms even if not asked? If the house is not neat, would you tell it to other friends? These are questions that came up in my mind.
2 responses
@rangics (1334)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
It makes me feel awkward to be caught up in a situation like this. I usually tidy things first before allowing a visitor to get inside our house. It's not that hard to do because we're used to doing it. It makes me uncomfortable seing my things all messed up. When I happen to visit a friends house too, I don't mind getting inside if their things are in a mess. If that's the kind of lifestyle they got used too, I respect that. I always ask permission to the household to be allowed to get a quick tour inside. If they wouldn't allow me then It'll be fine with me. I just don't have to insist because it's their property anyway. ;)
@saurabhchowdhry (35)
• India
11 Jun 07
home sweet home. no matter how it is.
i had a friend whose granny used to call us to clean up the mess at their house whenver a group of 4-5 people went over. its the same case when v were even asked to cut vegetables. so this is a lesson that frnds will help u share work and divide it saving time.
but dont remain on the receiving side.offer help to others also if they ask u for or may be even voluntarily.
