will you make the first move?
By chestel_402
@chestel_402 (62)
Philippines
3 responses
@FenwaySox (321)
• United States
11 Jun 07
It would totally depend on whether or not I think it would jeapordize our friendship. I think that there is usually a certain vibe that I pick up upon if thee is more than just the friendship. If I felt that there was some mutual chemisry, I would definitely make the 1st move. =)
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@chestel_402 (62)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
you're trying to be sure first. is that what you mean?
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
It would be best to let him know so that you wouldn't regret it someday. You owe it to yourself to be honest with your feelings and to let the person you love know how you feel. I told my boyfriend before we became a couple that I was in love with him. After a few more trials, he realized that he was in love with me too. We're happy right now being together ^_^
@chestel_402 (62)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
i'm happy things turned out right for you. but what if he doesn't feel the same way for you? will that affect your friendship?
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
When I first told my boyfriend about how I felt, he didn't really feel the same way.. He didn't let what I felt get in the way of our friendship though. He respected how I felt so nothing really changed between us since we're good friends and all. If he doesn't feel the same way, don't force yourself on him. Don't act differently either. He might be a bit aloof for a bit, but if he sees that you haven't changed, he'll go back to the way he was ^_^
