when your friend stops talking with you
By nomzee
@nomzee (80)
June 11, 2007 9:28am CST
ya u read it right...
wat will u do wen ur friend all of a sudden stops talking to you,
what eva mebe d reason....
mebe its just to truble you...
or mebe he/she has heared sumthin abt u from some one and now r in a
different view about you....
or its dat they just dont wanna b friends with u any more....
or its dat they want to hide sumthing from u....
remember dat they r not even telling u d reason even if u
ask for mant times...
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8 responses
@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
Well nomzee, establishing friendship to someone needs a strong foundation to call it a true friendship.A friend not talking to you for a while I guess is OK..there might be something bothering them or he/she is not just in the mood to talk to anyone even you as a friend. But wait, do you actually know him/her as friend...like knowing his/her moods all the time or just a casual friend of yours...You got to read between the lines that people are unique and no induvidual are alike.Thus, if your friendship stood with the test of time, with or without words then there is a real friend in both of you.But if even his or her attitude you can't understand, then you don't know each other that well and can't be that friend at all.It doesn't mean that less talk, tends the friendship has lost.Read between the lines, there are things better left unsaid than done, because words are sometimes harmful...Remember the saying, "Action speaks louder than words".
@bkneerajrk (773)
• India
11 Jun 07
I completely agree with you. You have given a very deep and profound meaning of true friendship. I appreciate this quality of yours. The things stated as knowing the mood of our friend is aptly said. If we know the person in and out we can very quickly get the idea as to what is bothering our friend and maybe we can solve it before its too late. Cheers to your views...
@kisstale2001 (80)
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11 Jun 07
This happens to me very often. My friends leve me for no reason at allin real I don`t have much friend on net with few I had few very close friend but now not talking to me just send offline msg showing want to talk but, don`t reply when I`m online & send msg it makes me feel very much hurted.I really feel even I should have true friend
@Ravrockin (281)
• India
27 Jun 07
when there is no mode of communications between us due to busy schedule at that time
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 07
that's sad..one of the things that hurt the most is not knowing why someone stop befriending you. if you've asked your friend many times why he/she is avoiding you but yet you get no answer, then i guess he/she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore for some weird reason..but as a friend, try to not hold it against the person, but still smile at them etc..who knows one day, he/she will warm up again towards you..
@binny29 (1527)
• India
11 Jun 07
when my friends atp talking to me it would be for some reaason if i know that reason i would surely ask him to tel why he isnt talking to me ,rest all depends on us how we make friendship again with him
@blog8withJ (136)
• United States
27 Jun 07
well...if your friends stop talking to you, there are some various reasons that is hard for her/him to explain. There are point in people's lives that they need to be alone, wondering or just to be with others. Maybe, she or he is jealous about something, being envy about something and a good way to deal it for her/himself is to distance herself/himself to you. If your friend is a girl, maybe she has a feeling for you for a longer period of time, and because she find it too hard to handle because she may thought that you can't read any clue, not talking to you would be her great solution to ease the feeling she has for you. Who knows? What you need to do is let it go. Time will tell if she/he will talk to you again. There are really reason for everything and since she/he's not telling you, the best thing you can do is to let it go. Time will tell you and time will let you know.
@AnnaB87 (761)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Maybe your friend just needs some time to theirself or maybe they are tired or something.
Sometimes people just grow apart.
Also remember in order to have a friend you have to show yourself friendly.
And sometimes you just need to let someone have space.
Everytime someone does not talk to you does not mean they are mad. or want to stop being friends.
Sometimes people just get things on their minds, and don't feel like talking to anyone.
@avelnrm (239)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
i'd feel really bad if a friend would stop talking to me for no reason at all and even more bad if i would ask his reason for not talking to me even if i would ask him for countless of times. i'd leave him alone for a while to gather his thoughts or recompose his self. if this is not successful, then i would ask another person or a common friend as to why he is acting in such a strange way.