Have you even been betrayed or have you betrayed someone who trusted you before?

@nielcdg (709)
Philippines
June 11, 2007 9:52am CST
I was betrayed years ago by my bestfriend, It was a foolish act really, we were fooling around with some girls and we videoed it all on his celphone but after that I asked him to erase it and he said he will. Then I suddenly found it being circulated around our neighborhood and our highschool. man how stupid were we hahah I hated him and his guts for four months, but I forgave him it was for me a harmless prank any way thats for my view. How about you have you ever been betrayed or have you ever betrayed some one or worse a friend?
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6 responses
• India
11 Jun 07
We friens were betrayed once too... Wen v friens were planin for a ride to a near by falls...V invited one of our friens n he said that he ll come... But at last moment he had some prob n said to postpone the trip... Bt already all the others told in their respected houses n got permissions... So v decided to go on the same day itself... But this stupid person called every one n said that the trip has been postponed n many of them believed n they dint come at all... It cud have been very gud if they had come... So after that went for some more trips n never called him... n never believed him after that instinct...
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Now that's unbelieveable and down right selfish of him, just because he cant come he doesnt want anyone to come right? Any ways there are people like that and they are called insane. It is good you have avoided such a person he doesnt deserve your friendship.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
Yes it was long ago and I already forgive her but I did not saw her too. And maybe till now she never know that I have forgive her already.
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
That sad to hear because of a misunderstanding your friendship had to end...well wont you like to talk to her again now that you are older and wiser?
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Yes, I have been betrayed by a close friend. I had a friend that tried to get my boyfriend to break up with me and go out with her. And she tried all kinds of ways to get that to happen. Thank goodness my boyfriend trusted me and knew what she was up to from the start. I have forgiven her but I never trusted her again.
@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
I believe It was always a girl's comment after her boyfriend break up with her is that " I was betrayed by him!". How pathetic for guys to leave us girl just to pleasure their selves to other things. They are not aware of what they are loosing. Because I believe a girl, when they are in love, they always give their best of everything but in the end they will be forsaken with guys. So, better no to trust anyone else, especially your suitors, as long as they have not proven their motives towards you.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
15 Jun 07
OH man... It definately sounds bad.. Keke... BUt did ur neighbours talk bad about u when they saw ur video? I must say u are a kind hearted person, as u r still willing to forgive him.. For me, i will be so angry he circulated the video around.. Yesh, i must say i have been betrayed by my best friend too.. I used to trust her alot... We can talk about anything everything under the sky.. It was then when i talked to my other friends that i realised she was spreading everything bad about me and telling tales about me.. Tt got me so sad.. Real sad i meant... She was my best friend, how could she... Since then, we stopped contacting each other and till now, we still havent contacted at all, though we lived in the same block, we hardly sees each other... But actually deep down, i have already forgive her... But i just cant imagine how i was going to talk to her again... Tts why the friendship just broke off, also... Guess she was too ashamed to face me more less talk to me...
@kit_anne (37)
• Denmark
11 Sep 08
unfortunately yes, i had betrayed someone who trusted me so much....i didn't even know how and why i did it but i know deep in my heart i was sorry...it was because i lied with her and didn't tell her that i was speaking with her boyfriend...reason why i didn't told her was because i do not know how to say it in a manner way that her boyfriend is actually digging on me and that he was talking to me behind her back...i dunno how to start to tell her because am afraid of what her reactions would be until she found it out herself...she got mad terribly and i was so sorry about it...i was wrong, no matter how hard it is it could be to her i should have told her so that she wont look so dumb not knowing what's going on..