how do you think of loving

China
June 11, 2007 11:22pm CST
As all know, love is holy. When you falling in love, you cann't control yourself. Also you have a responsibity to make he/she happy. However, in this matrial world, something has cheanged the holy thing. Money play a important role in loving. How do you think of loving? Do you believe true love?
4 responses
@leslai (21)
12 Jun 07
I believe that God has created human beings to exist in relationships. And real relationships are being held together through love. When people in relationships only go for money, properties, position or popularity, they may stay for a while but will not last. And almost always, will end up hurting, broken and heart hardened. Loving is giving. Parents give attention and needs of children while children, without knowing it, give joy to their parents. So with friendships. In husband-wife relationship, both need each other. One thing is to fall inlove, another thing is a decision to get married because of love. Broken marraiges today are saddening. Maybe because they have made the wrong decision in the first place, or just after the three p's above, or one may have just forgotten that loving is giving. Giving not only part of life but all. In most marriages, one may be too selfish to count how much the other has given him or her. But it takes high cost to give attention, time, care, body, soul, whole being.. But this is priceless if love is present at all times.
• China
13 Jun 07
Yeah, I think the same with you. To give is better than to receive. If we always thinking to give our love to others, the relationships between people would be harmony and the world would be warmer. However, so many chose to receive rather than to give. We should remember that and do it ourselves first.
@tracy1985 (654)
• China
12 Jun 07
yeah,I agree with you,love is holy.but now,it is changed a little,something bad have polluted it.just like money and lordliness.because of that,it is difficult to find true love.we are all affected by it. The life is very realistic,we should care everything,maybe love can give us happiness or satisfaction,but you can not treat it like food or others,without love maybe you also can live in a good life,but without money,you can not live too longer.I think that is why most people think money is more important than love.
• China
13 Jun 07
What you said is exactly true. We know the realism, but we cann't change it. After all, living is the first need of people.
@oasis_9 (831)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Of course i believe in true love... but i don't know about asking for signs and stuff. In short i'm not a huge fan of desnity
• China
13 Jun 07
hehe, I think just that belif is enough.
@nomzee (80)
12 Jun 07
i think u have a good point, now a dayz love have been a game for many or just a style or a good time pass, what i mean to say if pepul get into love n all just for a fashion status, they r just changing d true meaning, the only love which doesnt change with d time is mother's love for her child the truthfullness u find in a mothers love is found no where... i think rest of it.....finding true love in ur partner is just too hard.. if u did, u r a lucky person... gud luk....
• China
13 Jun 07
I agree with you. Mother's love is forever and the most great. We all have mother's love so we are lucky. Thanks for your blessing. And the same to you. Though finding true love is becoming harder and harder, we shouldn't give up.