How do you reject the people you don't like?
@qdzmq19822007 (67)
China
June 11, 2007 11:45pm CST
In our life,we will meet many peope.And some of them become our friends.under some circumstances,some people may say he like you and he is a good people.but you have no feeling with him.If you rejecet him,maybe you 'llnot be friends.
In this way,how do you do to reject him? And then you are still friends.
4 responses
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
13 Jun 07
I think it depends on defferent people you counter,not different ways.actually,if you do not like somebody,he can know by your behavior,because your behavior is the reflection of your feeling.so I think if he is enough clever,then he will know what you mean.under many circumstances,you will still be good friends.but if the people reject to be friends after your rejection,then do not feel regretful.because it is his fault.
@qdzmq19822007 (67)
• China
13 Jun 07
I am not iniate to him ,and as a courtersy,I write letters to his e-mail.Maybe sometimes,the boy thinks he still has any chance.And I can't say my rejection to him directly.
I meet some similar circumstances ,and at the end,we lose touch with each other.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Well, in a simple way. You don't need to spend more time talking with him/her. And I am sure they'll know too. Or maybe don't initiates anything.
@qdzmq19822007 (67)
• China
13 Jun 07
I think this way is not mature.As an andult ,we should take effective measures to solve this question.No matter good for ourselves,but also for others
@once79 (89)
• China
12 Jun 07
Under the circumstance,to avoid his/her self-respect ,Chinese usually say the follow sentences.
First:I think we are onle fit for good friends.
Second: You are so outstanding,I do not fit you.
Third:You are so handsome/pretty ,I can not feel the sureness.sorry.
etc.
@qdzmq19822007 (67)
• China
13 Jun 07
Hehe,it is funny to say that.We can see many articles wrote the scentances above.
@jnallen_487 (800)
• United States
12 Jun 07
The only thing that you can do is tell him that you just want to be friends and if he can't accept that at this time, then you'll just have to move on. Life's too short to beat around the bush. With any luck, he'll understand that you don't want him as a boyfriend but he'll still want your friendship. Friendship is better than nothing at all afterall.
@qdzmq19822007 (67)
• China
13 Jun 07
Yes,life is too short to waste any time.But I think tell him that above is too direct,maybe our friendship will be seperated.
Thank you .
