how big are the things that make you upset.
@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
June 12, 2007 12:38am CST
Its another day of calls and complaints but I am not going to let these petty things interfere and complicate my day. I have decided not to be so sensitive with the petty things and try to be more positive in outlook and in perspective and having the right mind set.
How about you mylotters how big are the things that makes you upset?
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@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
for me i make sure that there are nothing and no one that can make me upset..I start my day with a prayer and sometimes i go to church early in the morning, cause in such way my mind is set brightly and my heart is full of love.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Jun 07
Thats a good coping mechanism my firned. Yes it helps sometiems and eases our pain.
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
18 Jun 07
I've learned that it's very important when you close the office door, you also close out all the problems and worries of your job. Try it, it works, and you can relax, but at first it's difficult, so you have to train yourself.
Good luck Zelmarq.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
18 Jun 07
Yes I guess I will have to close it, my work is so stressful that I cant lave it just like thta. But when im at home I am able to leave my work.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
12 Jun 07
It might be a little thing but it takes a long long way and it afects a lot of things.
@mamacathie (3928)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I made up my mind this morning that no one was going to ruin my day. I accept that I am the one that allows them to change my mood. IT is 5;28 pm and so far I have succeeded. I was pushed pretty close once or twice but I reminded myself I was in control of my feelings not them. I have had a bad problem with everything very small even getting to me and upsetting me. I am going to try to live my life to the fullest and not let this happen any more.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Jun 07
the power of these small things over us is something great that when we remember those things that upset us, its terrible when its too petty too nonsense.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
12 Jun 07
Things that make me upset need not be big things. It can be small little petty things which people do despite being advised against doing. I am particularly upset if I have to follow up with things that happen because people do not listen and act against my advice.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
12 Jun 07
Thats the problem with people who are hard headed they annoy us in their own special way. I experience that with my younger brother s and sisters, they have their own way of annoying me when they dont do what I expected them to do, but then I realize that they are already growing and have the sense of independence and have their ways of thinking and acting things out.
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
just this morning when i wanted to withdraw my money through the ATM machine, i found out it was unable to dispense cash. i have to look for another one and saw people lining up, a long line indeed. i patiently waited until it was my turn to withdraw, unfortunately, it ran out of cash once more. all other machines are offline. it was a bad day for me. things like this really upset me. but i was able to overcome it because i went to another mall and luckily i was able to get my money.
patience is what we need when we are faced with difficulties, delay and provocations in life.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
12 Jun 07
Well, Im glad that finally you have withdrawn cash from your bank after several attemps it annoys us but when we get what we tried for there is happines in the end and all the efforts were enough.
@nomzee (80)
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12 Jun 07
well cant say about all but yaa i do get upset coz of things....
b it big or small...
even a small thing can just spoil ur mood n day....by he way
wat i have observed is weeva i think in my mind dat i am goin to b happy truh out...
d same day sumthin bad happens....
cant understand.....
but gud luk for all...hav a gud day
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
12 Jun 07
Yes lets make sure that we will not be affected by litthe things and let it rui our day.
