How long have not you cried,man?

China
June 12, 2007 9:12am CST
I think most girls like to cry when they meet something unhappy,but few men would cry when they are hurted,I think it is not only girls could cry,but men,when they feel sad,or heartrending,they also can cry. Whay about you,man,how long have not you cried? to women,how often do you cry,and for what? share it.thank you.
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Lakota12
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I sometimes cry at sad shows but mostly cried for 2 years after hubby passed away and sometimes now when I think of something special between us. It just hurst the man that cant cry it hurts them tohold it inside they really need to let it out.
Lakota12
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I am glad you did it is cleansing and for me I had held it in for 9 months while I watched him lose weight and not eat and going to hospital sometimes 2-3 times in a row. Just good for you to let it all out
josephperera
@josephperera (2906)
• Sri Lanka
20 Jun 07
I cannot remember crying for the past 20 years, but tears come to my eyes when I read some books and watch some scenes in movies or dramas. But that cannot be compared to crying. It is just sobbing very silently. I had cried when I was in my school age, but cannot remember why.
sukumar794
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
12 Jun 07
It's been more than 20 years since I cried ..not that I am worry free, still I manage my misgivings without a drop of tear oozing out of my eyelids .
KissThis
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
13 Jun 07
When I first read your discussion I wasn't sure what to think. I know men that cry more then I do. I very seldom cry unless it is a very stressful time. I cried this pass October because my daughter was going in for surgery on her heart. I was scared and stressed at the same time because I feared that I might lose my daughter. The time before that that I cried was a little over eight years ago when the took my then five month old daughter out of my arms for open heart surgery. Again I was afraid that I may not see my daughter alive again. I am not the type of person who gets all emotional over the little things in life.
joemiggs82
@joemiggs82 (114)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I last cried when I found out that my colleagues and I were laid off from my former company. They were obviously going under and had to let go of a few good people. What made it worse was that a close friend (who was also my officemate) knew about it beforehand and didn't tell me (but I had a clue because while the names were called, he was also in tears), but I already forgave him because I realized he was right in not telling me ahead.
viperkid
@viperkid (61)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
yeah ur ryt man, i do cry sometimes especially when someone hurts my feelings like when i just broke up with my girlfriend and stuff. physically, if someone hurts me, i really don't cry at all, its sort of my emotions that triggers my crying.. i cried about 2 months ago. how bout u?