Go on or move on??
By jomiche160
@jomiche160 (19)
Philippines
June 12, 2007 9:56am CST
For three years, me and my boyfriend were together.. We already have plans for the future.. Gave him my all, built my world around him and loved him with all my heart and soul! BUT something bothers me all the time...
We usually argue on small things that are not worth the fight! Some things that can be solved in five minutes or less but becomes big and hazardous! We are indeed incompatible in terms of perception, point of views, opinions, and so many things but we love each other like hell! I'm getting sick and tired of him in his worst modes! On the contrary, I can't imagine life without him, he is.. indeed.. a positive motivating force within my life! But until when are we gonna argue? There are still issues unsolved at this time and issues that were redundant already! I am air-headed when it comes to making this very important decision I have to make! HELPPP!
4 responses
@smacksman (6053)
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12 Jun 07
We all desire perfection! haha. Wouldn't it be boreing!
My wife and I have different views on certain subjects still after 37 rears of marriage. We know the differences and agree to differ but occasionally we take up the subject for a verbal wrestling match.
So long as the differences are not really serious then no problem.
@jomiche160 (19)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
WOW! 37 years.. (thumbs up!) anyhow, maybe we just made our differences a BIG ISSUE though its not. There are really aspects in a relationship that a person can't understand. In a way, it helps strengthen the relationship.. i mean the hang-ups u both. agree? hehe!
@smacksman (6053)
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14 Jun 07
Yes. I agree.
One of the important things to have is a sense of humour. It is good to laugh at some of the differences or problems.
Good luck.
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
13 Jun 07
Couples undergo this stage...I even knew someone who are married for almost 20 years but their opinions, point of view always clash..Just ask your self, can you live without him? if not then I suggest to you both to sit down and talk...this are petty squabbles that can be resolved by time, patience, understanding and open communication..hope your relationship works out :)
@jomiche160 (19)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
I already ask myself that question.. I can live without him but for the first months, it would hurt so bad. But yeah ur right.. thanks :)
@fly_shay (333)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
well I guess you have to weigh things down and decide carefully every bit of it. For sure those arguments that you have will soon be resolved.You said that it's not worth the fight?Then why do you always argue about it?Should both of you be calmed everytime that topic comes in.Goodluck
@jomiche160 (19)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
emotional disorder.. that is. We're usually bein carried away by our emotions, that makes our brain irrational and stupid. haha!
@ctiu80 (216)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
I would advice you to Go on, why.. bcoz there's love to both of you.. The only thing you have to do is compromise or talk each other no need to fight.. its worth nothing you know. If you love each other you will do all your best to save your relationship. Both of you should learn to adjust each other, adjust to your differences. Actually for me it's fun to be imcompatible in a relationship rather than your both compatible its too boring =). Try to sort all your problem talk about it and try to adjust. Learn to give way. Sooner or later everything will be ok and remember there's no such thing a perfect relationship. time to time there's a arguement. it's up to u how to handle it. =) hope it works bcoz mine its work that way.. =) God bless.
