Will you let someone SLEEP on your BED?

In the old days of apartment living, I would (and did) some of the time. However, if they were really sweaty, I'd yawn myself and say that I might just take a nap too and that they could use the couch. I'd put spare sheets on it for them and everything. Course now, I have a house, and a guest bedroom just for that type of situation. (or visiting in-laws.)

I guess it would just depend on the person. I would never let a guy friend sleep on my bed unless my husband said he could. That could get ugly! But if one of my good friends or a family member wanted to rest, then I probably would. I don't think I would let them if they were dirty though. I don't want to sleep in filth. lol

No, I wouldn't let anyone sleep in my bed. That seems gross to me. But, I know other people don't have problem with it. I would have told the friend to crash on the couch, instead, especially if he was stinky and sweaty. By the way, why didn't he take a nap at his place before coming over to yours, anyway?

I do not know about that one. I might offer the recliner chair or something. Like you, if I had just changed the sheets, I would have again. I would have a really hard time letting someone use my computer LOL, because that is personal to me too. Why couldn't he nap at his own place? Is he trying to escape? Maybe at home they won't leave him alone. I guess, about the bed, I would maybe have laid another cover over the top, so I would not have had to change the whole thing again. Definitely I would have given him a spare pillow, not my own.

Well, what you did was very nice, but someone like that, no, I wouldn't let them sleep on my bed. It really depends on who the person is. I have no problem changing the sheets, but on the other hand, if I were a sweaty person no way would I even ask someone if I could sleep on their bed. It puts them in a bad position when you know they want to politely tell you no. : )

almost the same thing happened to me last month. my friend came over to watch the Mayweather fight and after the fight my cousin cut his hair and then cut mine. it was around 2 in the morning when my cousin started cuttin my hair so my friend was like he's sleepy and can he go lay down in my bed. i had no other choice but to keep it G wit him and said no u can go lay down on the couch downstairs and sleep if ur sleepy. it would of been different if we was in my room and he laid back and fell asleep. but im not goin just let u go in my room lay up in my bed and just get ur nap on when u can do that on the couch.

Man this is the most irritating thing for me . I cann't allow anyone else to sleep on my bed in any condition bcz in such case I have to sleep somewhere else and bcz of it I cann't have a gud sleep . So anybody else on my bed to sleep ........... i cann't allow anybody.....noway.

My sister always gave her and her husband's bed to my parents whenever they slept over. Now that my father has passed I believe they give her the single bed in the guest room. When my mother, parents, in-laws sleep here, we open up the futon in the family room and they sleep there. Only on one occasion have we let someone sleep in our bed and that was when a couple from my husband's hometown came this way on their honeymoon. I thought considering it was there honeymoon they should be able to stay in a private room (there is no door on our family room - but sure do hope to get one one of these days!). The were reluctant to take our bed but we insisted. I don't know or care whether they did anything in that bed. We changed the sheets and that was sufficient. My husband and I slept on the pull-out in the family room (this was before we had the futon). I had just given birth a month or so before so it wasn't like WE needed any privacy. I know that's probably more information that you were looking for but I think that as long as the sheets are changed afterwards, I would have no problem with it. Though the comforter would concern me somewhat as it doesn't get washed as often as the bedsheets and pillow cases. Who knows how a person sleeps - some drool, some sweat, some bury themselves on under the sheets, some get themselves all twisted up in the sheets and the comforter. Well you certainly have me thinking now. I may not offer my bed to someone in the future. LOL! Best to get a door for the family room.

I have often given up my bed to entertain guests so I am used to it.but AI think when I get to live full time with my Jia Wu I will make our bedroom private because I don't want to separate from him when we are together.If I am single I don't mind but once I am with my Hubby and we live together properly there will be a separate place for guests..our bedroom will be our sanctuary, but on my own I don't mind..

No I really don't like anyone to use my bed but if they do I will change the sheets and everything that was on the bed. The only person can sleep on my bed is my husband.

So far, only my family members, the kids and my cousins have slept on my bed. In fact, the kids too play on my bed. In my home, we are not really particular. Beds are taken as sofas in the rooms. We practice bed-hopping. As long as one is occupied, we can take another. And that is allowed only in the day-time. Except for me, where I have full access to 2 beds at all times. And of course, so far no one has the audacity to request to sleep in my bed when he is stinky and sweaty.

If I knew the person well enough, I would think it an odd request, but would probably say yes, but if he was dirty and smelling, I would say that he could stretch out on the sofa, especially if I had just changed my sheets, because I wouldn't have to be washing them again. I would not have any problems refusing in those circumstances :-)

We have a guest room (and a very comfortable couch! Lol) which I probably would've taken him to. But if he insisted on staying in my room for some reason, I'd probably change the sheets. NOT because he's sweaty and I don't want him on my sheets, but because I think no one should sleep on anyone's sheets, regardless of who's the stinky smelly one. Haha. Though if it was just a nap.. I don't know. I change sheets for overnight staying but never have for a nap. I probably would've ended up doing what you did, let him stay and then change my sheets after he left. But really, I would've sworn by how comfy my couch was before any of that! Lol.

I allow my fiancee to sleep in my bed. That is the only person. If a friend of mine wanted to come over to borrow my computer I could allow that but once they get here the ask to borrow my bed for a nap also I would have to suggest to them that they return to their own home to take a nap. I don't share my bed with just anyone.

I guess I would, but I never have to since we have a spareroom with a bed and things that we use as a guestroom =) He or she would be more than welcome to take a nap there.. However I would be shocked if a friend came to my house to visit and immidiately wanted to sleep =)

A friend of course I would. Tis no problem if they don't have a problem with sleeping after me and mine. The fact that you can change the sheets and pillow cases etc makes it quite ok. Tis not a problem and there is always febreze for the more odiferous of our friends. Will be neat to see what others have to say on this subject.

You're too nice to your friend. I don't allow anyone to sleep on my bed. My bedroom alone have all my private and personal belongings and I wouldn't be comfortable for anyone to snoop around. Anyone who needed to sleep can use the spare bedroom. I have two equally comfortable beds there. I have a close relative who loves to hang around my room, check on my clothes and lie down on my bed. She always left my bed with all the pillows thrown everywhere. This really irritated me for years now. But then again, I'm used to her attitude already.

I would have done pretty much the same as you did. These days me and my mom gets acupuncture treatment in my home. Then I will let my mom lie in my bed. That does not bother me at all. Sometimes when we have visitors I will let them have my bed as well. My dad sometimes needs to rest when he visits - that is also just fine with me. My partner does not like it much though to have anyone in his bed. He really dislikes it

Hey wizard I would do just what you did. I would let them sleep on my bed if that was the only option but change the sheets right away. Funny thing is a similar incident happened to me. I had someone follow me to my house and he explained that he was going home from a local bible camp and had gotten a migrain headache. I get these so I know what he was dealing with, anyway I asked if he needed some advil and he accepted and asked if he could maybe sleep for a bit somewhere. I have never seen this person before! Anyway, we have another house near by so we brought him there and let him crash. He slept all afternoon and I also left a note saying to come over to the house and have some food before going home. I then came back to the house and started to search for his parents phone number. He had told us his name and that they own a seed plant and that was what we had to go on. We did find the number and called them to let them know where he was and what happened. They were so very surprised that we would do that and I imagine there are people who wouldn't. Anyway, he never did come back to eat but when we went to check on him he had turned the note over I had written and said thank you and left some money.

Oh, I don't think so! No body gonna sleep in my bed. I don't want no stinky person smelling up my bedroom, much less my sheets. If I have someone sleep over they can sleep in one of my spare guest rooms, normally I have one spare bedroom, but my kid is off to school, so now I have two. And if they don't like that, I have twoo other houses they can sleep in. But no one sleeps in my bed! Peace!