Will you marry a man, if he is:

tall, rich and potent husband? - men
@magica (3707)
Bulgaria
June 12, 2007 10:05pm CST
- small - poor - with a small organ? I just saw discussion in Bulgarian forum where one very extreme lady quite aggressively attacked the men because of their complexes. Of course, most of the forum members from both sexes flame with her. So...i have no idea for flame here, just ask you how important for you is your partner to be: - taller then you - financially secure or even rich - sexually potent and with big organ? Are you prone to make compromise with every of theese things or with any of them? Are you tactfull and can you be understanding to the complexes of your partner?
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@FSCAries (881)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I think all of that is trivial. I mean, a person must be attractive to you to get your attention, but once you fall in love with someone, that's what really matters. All the other stuff is just petty.
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@nurseg5 (20)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
i still do, if you reallylove someone its doesnt really matters.. love is unconditional!
• India
13 Jun 07
love is unconditional that is the better word to read, as we know we all are saying love should made by heart,yes it will produce automatically depend up on circumstances and nature of life
• Canada
13 Jun 07
None of this is important to me , it is how I feel about the person and about how they feel towards me . There are so many things in life that are important but none of this has anything to do with what is important in life . One can't be held responsible for things like this as we can't help what we look like , the kind of job we have , how much money one makes or anything like this . I care more about understanding , sharing the same interests , how well we relate to each other and how this person feels about our children , things of that nature . Everything else is just trivial and of no consequence to me .
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Jun 07
I don't think it matters much as to a small organ so long as it works well. Why do some women care so much about the size? It's ridiculous. What should be cared about is whether he really loves her and has the ability to support a family and be loyal to his wife as well as responsible to his family.
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
13 Jun 07
To me none of these things matter, my partner is my best friend, I love him because of who he is and the other stuff is just trivial stuff that to me doesnt matter! If people worry about these things they are obviously shallow
@wiccania (3360)
• United States
13 Jun 07
if i enjoy a persons company, and have that connection that makes me want to live my life with someone. those other aspects don't matter. i would prefer that he be gainfully employed, but as long as bills can be paid (together), the amount made doesn't matter. that said, my first husband spent a lot of time unemployed, and even when he was employed the only bills he paid were half of the rent and his car payment. then when my sister came to live with us, she paid 1/4 the rent half the utilities and bought the groceries once a month. he paid 1/4 of the rent and his car payment. i paid everything else. it was frustrating when he would get a job and a month later decide he didn't like it and quit -- afterall, i could cover his "share" of the bills with my two jobs. that irritated me to no end. quite frankly i felt used, which is part of why i divorced him. i've been in too many relationships where i've had to be the sole financial support. so i prefer that he at least be able to take care of his share of the expenses.
• United States
13 Jun 07
The way I see it is no one is perfect, so why point my finger at someone when they could point their finger right back. I must admit that I'm attracted to men who are muscular, but they don't have to be huge. My man is 125 lbs wet, but he looks physically fit. The main thing I look for is that connection or chemistry most call it, and feelings. Being rich, or heavily endowed isn't what will make a relationship last. Any man can make a woman happy if they take the time to do so. I hate to admit this, but that woman deserved to be flamed for acting so foolishly.
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
Im not sure, because i am not bothered much for the physical looks.Before, i have been so picky.But then, i am not happy and content.Still there is missing.I guess, i will let love find me and not me finding love...
@azimsay (543)
• India
13 Jun 07
I will marry with poor man but I want he is good minded.If he will take my care alwaysin problem.If he will help me for my children.In life both will each other,that call happy home.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
No, as long as he loves me and i love him, even if he didnt meet all the requirements above, we can still live a happy life. Marrying to a man/woman you love and loves you also is a lifetime happiness. Loving someone will not depend on what he has or what he have in life.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
13 Jun 07
Oh, it must have been hurting for the guys... I mean noone loves and can accept such verbal insults... I guess i would be so sad if i were the one who got verbal attacked... how important for you is your partner to be: - taller then you Well, i think this is fairly important... I mean im prtty tall, so i need a taller guy to give me sense of security and i believe this makes me feels more love too... dont u agree? - financially secure or even rich I guess my partner doesnt have to be rich... But at least he should be financially stable... meaning to say... if u were thinking of marriage and he isnt even stable, how would u even be secure? - sexually potent and with big organ? for this, i beg to differ... i guess it doesnt really matters... as long as there is love... no problems cant be solved... and this is something they cant choose to be... Of coz i will try to be nice and tactful and compromise if theres a need... But i guess i wouldnt attacked them like the lady did andway... So hurting... =|
@oasis_9 (831)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
If you love the person you'll try not to look for his imperfections right? and you married the person! call me old fashioned but when you marry the person i think everything you see in him is perfect!
• China
13 Jun 07
For my part,what I do care is whether he really loves me and consideres me as one of his most important parts in his life. but,to be a husband,he should at least be the bread-winner even though i can live off my own salary,because it means if he has necessary capability of living and even affording the family.