its not love; its because she's pregnant?
By xxlollytaxx
@xxlollytaxx (28)
Malaysia
June 13, 2007 1:20am CST
will you marry a girl because you loved her or because you kinda like her, made love and finally she's having your baby?
4 responses
@bethel_101 (432)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
hi!
the ideal setup is, you'd marry someone because you love her. but if you've given her a baby, maybe it's up to you if you want your kid to be raised in a typical family setting, the mom and dad together, or not.
for me, i still believe that marriage is for two persons willing to love each other for the rest of their lives, not just because they made love and accidentally made a baby. =)
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@xxlollytaxx (28)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 07
i agree. but feelings can grow, but they can go away too. its hard to say. you love her so, you both get married. later in the relationship they'll be arguements and misundestanding which leads to divorce. would it still be love or a big mistake?
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
13 Jun 07
well, Getting married because of a child is almost always a lose lose situation, it has worked out for some, but I think you must be in love. Even marriages based on love sometimes do not work out. I have two kids with someone I am not married to, we live together and have a relationship, but we didnt want to get married until we wanted to. I still do not know if we ever will, but I think having a baby is not the greatest reason to get married.
@xxlollytaxx (28)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 07
i agree with you. its a common practice around my area though. they got together one night, do this & that and before you knew it they're handing out invitation cards. well, more to a mouth to mouth invitation. the shocking part is, some of this 'victim' is among teenagers with great grades 8 school. well, you sure don't judge a book by its cover.
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
13 Jun 07
Whatever the reason if she is carrying your baby what withhold you to marry her.
@xxlollytaxx (28)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 07
thats easy.. how could you never thought of it. if the guy is married.. he loves his wife, his kids, his family... futhurmore, if his wife is the richest women alive.. would he be leaving her wife for you? get real. unless he loves you like crazy-YES.
