I caught my bf!!what to do?

Wow, what a bummer.. And you ask me, that is considered flirting. I don't know about you, but I'll just brush it aside. Now that you know he's like that, you definitely know you can't trust him. So it's up to you to go along with the relationship or not. If you feel that you want to, don't take the relationship seriously then. Have a fling of your own. Just ask yourself whether you love him or love yourself more?? Don't let yourself get bummed by a flirt like that. Good luck babe~! ;)

Leave him to flirt with this girl. But it may not be easy to get a boyfriend who would not flirt like this one did. You get the point? So, the search would be difficult and a tedious one. And, what if you find a right boyfriend and the right boyfriend does the same thing after marrying you? Life is full of uncertainty; we must prepare ourselves to meet the challenges. How come, this boyfriend of yours did not show his 'type' all this time to you? Or, were you charmed so much that you never tried to understand his type afore? Good luck in whatever you do.

This is definitely flirting. I would confront him with this and have him explain. Maybe he feels that you are not in a serious relationship so he has the right to flirt with others. I wouldn't take any excuses~ He will probably try to turn it around on you and say that you shouldn't have been in his account, so be prepared for that. This type of flirting usually ends up with doing more than flirting, so you want to deal with this immediately.

So you caught him by reading His Account? Did you feel a little guilty when you were snooping? She was his neighbour at one time? Like they were old friends! I see! One way to keep him home would be to Castrate him. It works well on Cats and Dogs. He might get lazy and lie around the house a lot, but there's no way hes going to flirt with an old neighbour! He will only be able to pee out of it. And then he will have to hold it up because it will be as droopy as an old dishrag....

You did not say how serious your relationship is with your bf. You may have forsaken all other guys to be with this person, but he may be seeing the relationship different from you. He may want to keep a relationship going with you, yet still flirt around with other female friends until he is ready to commit to only one person. If you treat your relationship very seriously, and feel hurt by what you have discovered, then perhaps you should confront your bf, let him know what you have found out and tell him that it hurts you to know what he has done. Tell him how serious you are about him, and if he is also serious, then he should not be encouraging other girls to develop a relationship with him behind your back. Let him know that trust and faithfulness are very important to you. If he gets angry with your reproach, and shows no understanding or attempt to change, then it may not be worth your while to continue the relationship. It is something you have to assess for yourself. It may be better for you to find someone else who may be more deserving of your love and attention. Since you are still young, you have ample opportunities to look for someone who will be serious enough to want a lasting, cherished lifetime relationship with you.

In my opinion all guys flirt.. Flirting does not mean that he's having an affair. If I got upset everytime my husband flirted I would be mad and upset all of the time I think.

if your boyfriend was my boyfriend, i will really talk to him right away. ofcourse, i will have those emails printed so he can't just delete them and say that i am making up stories. it is obvious that he is flirting to that girl. i mean, if they are just friends, why won't they just email each other on friendster? no need for asking yahoo messenger IDs, right? and why should he try and call her sexy? gosh.. it's too much. .. and yes, i am a jealous girlfriend. but i do have rights to feel that way anyway. plus mae, try to gather some more evidence if you can. then, start from there... anne

First of all.. Why did you open his account? That is a sign that u do not trust him, and if there is not any trust there than I would say that the relation is not good to start with. I would now however confront him, coz I do consider this to be inapropiate behaviour from his side. You do not say things like that to a girl if u are not single.

I guess if I were you should gather some more evidence to prove your point. At this time, I would say it's pretty normal for us guys to flirt like that. investigate further if the girl responded favourably with his suggestion. If it does find a way to know what conversation did they exchange with each other and maybe if you done all of these you already got enough evidence to prove your point.

I think you should tell him goodbye. This is not the person that you really want to have a relationship with. You can not trust him, so why be with him? Set him free. Let him go to others, and find yourself a good man, that is worth wasting your energy on.

hi mae1216! i would say that you should gather more evidence to prove that. maybe he's not only doing it in friendster community. maybe in some other ways he's flirting with other girls like thru sending txt messages, or just flirting around with other girls. just observe first his behavior when it comes to the women. when you proved it and confirmed that he's such a flirt, then confront him. maybe he's not serious with your relationship.

hmp!! you have to print all the messages you saw.. then you should always be careful on your investigation....ok? then... i think you feel some insecurities.. but its normal to us girls... i know what it feels.. by the way, take time beautiful... you have to take it easy and just chill until you can hit the target on its most painfull way... you are beautiful.... its his lost.. ok?

You better think carefully if you still want to continue this relationship with him..Talk to him or gather enuf evident.. bcoz for me flirting with other women is a sign of cheating.. hope you could solve this soon.. so that you won't get hurt so much.. God bless

You should confront him about this. The sooner the better. If you will let this pass for several days, you will continue to be distrurbed about the situation. Don't forget to pray for guidance. Take care....

If you can hold off from saying anything to him yet without letting your anger get in the way , then this is what I would do . Keep an eye on what is going on between the two of them until you have enough information to go after him with so that he can't lie his way out of it . I realize this must be really difficult for you and wish I could say something to make you feel better as I am sure you are hurting right now but the best thing you can do is find out for sure what kind of person he really is and how far he will take this when he thinks you don't know . Take Care and Best of Luck !!

Gather more evidence before confronting him. He could be just joking with her. Some people do that to each other. Confronting him now won't get you anywhere except cause problems. He can wriggle out of it and you'll lose the chance to catch him in the act because he will be more careful about it from then on.

he is obviously flirting. talk to him first, get his side so that you will get the complete picture then when you have all the information that you need, ask yourself if you still think he's worth it. as for me, if i caught my bf flirting with another girl, then i'm gone. women deserve more than flirting bfs! if he can flirt i'm sure it'll be no problem for him to upgrade to doing something else ;)

If you start feeling that he has ceased to love you, then leave him and search for another guy. But if you fee that he is just flirting with the other girls, then its okay, coz such things are always a part of A man's life...You can at most tell him and let him know that you know what he does and upto. Then he will be cautious and not cross his limits...

He's probably just very friendly guy, do some investigation, do not jump into conclusion straight away, Guys are flirt in nature but if they really love thier gf they really respect and stuck to thier gf. so, slowdown and be vigilant...if he really doing something or carry on sending her flirty messages then make your prudent move. GoodLuck ;)

maybe you should abandon this bf!he ia not a excellent man !