my brother is a cheater

Philippines
June 13, 2007 9:52am CST
what would you do if you find your brother is cheating on his girlfriend? i really felt bad when i found out that my brother is cheating on his girlfriend. my family are very closed to my brother's girlfriend specially me. she's so very nice and sweet and very thoughtful person. she is working abroad and 2 months before she's about to go back for a short vacation when i found out whats my brother doing. i want to tell he's girlfriend about it but thinking that my brother would really hate me if id do that made me hesitant. and i felt i betrayed my friends trust. and now i feel so guilty about it.
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4 responses
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
i think you need to talk to your brother.... tell him what would you feel if i was been cheated. talk to him reversing the situation. if she dont like his girl then might as well end the relationship than leading along like this. tell your brother if he will not fix this then you will be the one to tell the girl. lets see what he will do?
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
hmmmm.... ill ask you something....can we really teach our heart who to love?...... can we insist in our heart who is right and who is wrong the wrong person? love has a lot of surprises and turn overs.... for me he should take care for the girl has done hurting him before and might do the same way now OR the girl now is matured OR now that he is in a band that is the reason why the girl likes him. its an "A FACTOR" when you are in a band. ask mac...."is this girl worth the second time around?"
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
itold him as you advised and he said that the girl told him that she never cheated on him while they were on but i asked my other brother marvin if it's true and he said that ahe cheated on him twice with 2 diffirent guy!!!
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
itold him as you advised and he said that the girl told him that she never cheated on him while they were on but i asked my other brother marvin if it's true and he said that ahe cheated on him twice with 2 different guy!!!
• Philippines
23 Jun 07
I think it is best for you not to tell the girlfriend of your brother that he is cheating on her even though she is your friend. Your brother will hate you for telling. Trust me. I know because I made that mistake 3 years ago. I found out my brother was cheating on his girlfriend. He was kissing another girl in our house. I felt sorry for his girlfriend so I told her about it without even thinking twice. BIG MISTAKE! My brother hated me. He told me he could not trust me anymore. He also told me he would not share secrets with me already. I really felt horrible. So just let your brother be the one to tell his girlfriend. It is their relationship and they are supposed to be the ones fixing it or ending it.
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
i dont have to tell his girlfriend because he found it by herself already and my brother is in big problem right now!!
• India
16 Mar 08
hey well mostly this happens. well i would like to tell you that mostly sister do this thing. but some sister like my sister she donot accept my cheating in exams. and if i do this cheating she will surely gonna kill me. well i thnik you brother is doing wrong thing.
@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
13 Jun 07
It is really not your place to tell his girlfriend anything. The most you can do is talk to your brother and try to work it out that way. I understand how you feel, but your brother is your brother no matter what. Make it clear to him how much it is affecting you as well what he is doing. Ask him if he'd like it if he found out your partner was cheating on you, and making you look like a fool. I think he would take it a bit more seriously when he sees it from your point of view. Good luck.
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
i told my brother already but it seems not a ffecting him. maybe i just might not interfere into his affairs