The one you love can reflect who you are?

I believe, but in a much more complex way. The person I love is not equal to me. In some aspects yes, but in some not. So, you can't tell who I am just by seeing her. But she is making me change, and she is my mirror. I try to copy her, I try to be like her. I am changing, and these changes are strongly influenced by her. So, in this way, yes, you can tell who I am just from knowing whom I love. It's a shame she doesn't love me back. I hope I made myself clear.