Do you Like to Give money to Beggers ?

India
June 14, 2007 5:27am CST
Suppose one day a begger comes upto you and start asking u for some money. What will be your Response? Would you like to give him some money? Do you think there is nothing wrong in giving some money to these poor people?
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10 responses
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 07
Not to say I don't like them. I will see how they look first. Some beggars here are in control of a syndicate which ask them to beg and at the end of the day, will collect the cash from them. I see many children being used to get money from public by this syndicate. I will not give them money if I know one.
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• India
15 Jun 07
That's what we need to check. ALways check whether your hard earned money is going into the hands of really poor people. Thankx 4 response.
@sandeep_t (428)
• India
14 Jun 07
I generally dont encourage begging. I consider it as a social evil. I dont give any kind of help to the people whom i feel physically fit. But in some situations, like when i come across very old people i will give them some money or i buy them some food.
• India
15 Jun 07
That's really good. YOu are doing the right thing by providing the help to the needy people. Thankx 4 ur response.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
i used to give money to beggars but not anymore. i see them gambling on the street so i dont give money anymore. i always have candies or cookies in my bag and give them food rather than money.
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• India
15 Jun 07
Yes in most of the cases these so called beggers use our money either for gambling or purchasing luxury things. You are right that its always better to give them some Food etc. but not the cash. SEcondly if it looks that they are really in trouble then we can help them in getting a suitable job. Thankx 4 response.
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I guess I am lucky because this isn't something I have seen a lot of. I have lived in generally smaller towns and even in our city there aren't a lot to make it a real bother. I did go to Chicago once and was instructed by the person I was with not to give money because more will surround me. I have to admit I felt guilty for not giving any. I worked for many years helping families in crisis. A few were families that were homeless due to situations of them not being able to maintain housing. I didn't run into anyone that wanted to be homeless so my heart goes out to those that are. I can not imagine what it would be like to be without a home. We say get a job but I who will give someone a job that hasn't had a bath or that has clothes that are torn and dirty? I know if anyone had walked in to where I managed I would not have even had an interview with them. So how what do we do?
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• India
15 Jun 07
Surely you are lucky then because in India you can see beggers everywhere. Yes it's difficult to get them job but i think we can atleast try in that area by providing them cloths, food etc.
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
14 Jun 07
Beggars - Do you Like to Give money to Beggers?
Well...I think we shouldn't give money to beggars coz God has given everyone two hands to work and to earn. Why they need assistance. we can give money if we want to but why to spoil somebody by giveing them. Let them to work, if no one will give then one day they will work and earn by themselves only. They are spoilin nature and God's creation and half of the money they use to give to those people who appoint them and who's under they work... anything can help...this is 21st century
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• India
15 Jun 07
I think it's better to let them work to earn some money. If they'll keep getting this easy money they'll never try their hands to earn something. If we really wants to help them then for that we can offer them some work if they are ready to do that. Thankx for ur response.
@raychill (6525)
• United States
14 Jun 07
In my city we have a lot of people who come up to you and ask for money. I have a few simple rules on whether or not I give the person money. For one, if and only if I have some spare change in my pocket (no bills) then I might. If I have to reach into my purse/wallet and/or if I have to sort through bills than I won't. For two, if I've seen this person walk about to a bunch of people asking for money there's also a good chance I won't give them anything. I also listen to their story. They make up some pretty bad stories when they're just trying to get some money. I remember a woman who told me some sob story about how her daughter was at daycare and she needed to pick her up but she didn't have money for the bus. I didn't give her money. About 20 minutes later this woman came up to me again and said another sob story about how she needed to get to the airport because she was going to miss her plane and she didn't have enough for the taxi. She not only had two different stories, but she couldn't even remember that she'd just talked to me 20 minutes before. Another man I once gave money to because he just asked if he could have any spare change for food. I said, sure... and handed him 50 cents that I had in my pocket. He thanked me profusely and told me that when he got rich and famous he would pay me back. It was sweet and cute because obviously he wasn't going to be rich and famous or pay me back since he didn't even know who I was.
• India
15 Jun 07
Yes these beggers are always full of stories. I think you should try to avoid giving money to these beggers. You can help them in other ways also. Help them in earning money by helping them in getting suitable job. If they refuse to this that means they are doing their business only and your are one of their customer.
@raychill (6525)
• United States
15 Jun 07
The idea of finding a job for a begger is a nice concept. Not as easy as it seems. Especially if they don't have skills or a home or want to clean themselves up to be presentable for a job. There was another man that my family used to see all the time. He spent his days in a shopping center where we went to the blockbuster. Once my dad tried to give him money and he actually refused it. His mother had taught him better than that. So my dad tried to give him blankets and a coat. He accepted them. He did not like to take things from people because, as he had said his mother had taught him better. He didn't want the blankets or coats either, but my dad insisted as they were handouts and they would help him stay warm. I think giving them useful items is a much better thing than trying to find them a job.
• China
19 Jun 07
If the begger is younger or healthy enough, and he/she can afford himself, i will not help them, but if i come across a handicapped and lose survive ability, i will help them .
@angela2006 (1845)
• China
15 Jun 07
if they are really poor and weaken man,then I would like to help them,but now there are more and more people who pretend to be beggars and actually,they can earn money by themselves,but they just want to earn money easily by this,to them,I will not give money to them.
• India
15 Jun 07
Yes it should be the case. We should try to help those those really are in need. Thankx for response.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
15 Jun 07
I often don't give money to them now, especially for those young beggers. Now there are beggars teams now. They are a big team. They can go some expensive restaurant that I can't go. They can earn over $1000 per day. It is a good job, too. hahaha. When I have a shop, everyday a beggar go to my shop and ask money, if I dont' give him, he will say bad words to me. Sometimes I want to hit him.
• India
15 Jun 07
Yes now a days these so called beggers are very well organised. They are having their working areas and they work in groups. They feel that begging is their right and you just can't refuge them otherwise they'll start abusing you. Thankx for UR response.
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
i used to before.. but when i saw them gambling in the streets i stop giving them money instead i give them food.