who's the first person you would call if you were feeling depressed?

hey teleios~! For me, I'll always call my boyfriend if I'm in the slumps. But if my problem happens to involve my boyfriend, then it would definitely be my sister. She's also my best friend.. :)

diana, my best friend. defenetly.

I call my best friend whenever I am feeling down. She is always there for me and comes when I need her, for coffee, or a hug. Sometimes it takes her a while to get back to me when I leave a message, but she never fails to cheer me up and make the world feel okay again.

I wouldnt call anyone...when I have my episodes I dont like to confide in others becuase with too much outside opinions I cant think straight enough for me to find the solution or resolve it etc etc ya know...I prefer to keep to myself until I can't get through the worst of it then I'll talk to someone usually my husband or a couple of close gfs but even then its kinda rare......I DO however, when my episodes get bad, let my husband and kids know where my head is at just so they have a heads up and are aware I'm in a danger zone ya know..

What kind of depression? depression for love? For me its not working coz am a married woman already, but for other things like losing of my cellphone which i experienced last week and any circumtances that make me depress of, it is actually my husband who first notice it, all the things that happens in my life every second and every minute of the day i confesses it to my husband as my husband did that usually towards me, we dont have any bestfriend's other than ourselves, we're not only husband but a partner in life and bestfriends, (of course we do have friends).

To be honest there is usually a reason behind my depression and so I can get a second opinion woudl ring my four closest mates for their opinion, then would be able to make up my mind using bits of information from each bit of advice.

You know, that's one of the challenges of depression, clinical depression anyway. The clinically depressed person usually doesn't want to talk to ANYone. They withdraw, which makes it worse. But if I'm simply feeling low, I talk to my spouse, who is good at helping me feel better. We'll go out to dinner or sit by the river or see a movie or something. And we talk. When I figure out why I'm down, then we know how to fix it. I'm lucky that my spouse is also my best friend.

My husband is very matured type and gives a correct solution or analyses the problem and gives a correct picture of that situation and solution. Earlier when my husband was on transfer, my son used to be of moral support to me.

I would call either my boyfriend, my best friend or my mother. I would probably chat with my online friend first. She and I are very much alike, and we have the same illness. She is the best at understanding whta I am going through.