Trust~~~~~~~

I have lost trust in close family members because of inheritance issues. I never thought we would be one of those families where that happens. I don't know that the trust will ever be back to what it was before. At this point there are no efforts to gain back the trust on their part. Time will tell, but it will take a long time. You are right. Trust built over years can be destroyed in seconds.

When I saw the preview of your discussion it was just going on about how good trust is and I was going to reply sayiung how it can be taken away form you in an instant so I was glad to see that I wasn't the only one who thought that. I once dated a guy and he was my best friend and he messed me around something terrible. Like when we were on a break he said he hadnt been with anyone and then I found out after everyone else that he had been lying nad treating me like an idiot. I know it could have been worse and he could have done it while we were dating but there was another few instances where my trust was totally ripped away. It was probably the first guy I actually went out with and cared about. I find now that trsuting someone is something that takes ages to build up and that hurts me cos I don't want to be the crazy psychotic girl that can't trust so now I don't normally tend to date people just to avoid that stigma. God, my life sounds harsh lol. Talk about a discussion to make you think hard about yourself lol.

trust is one of the key to have a happy and fulfilling relationship. it is given freely and willingly afterall you had love someone thats why u trust them. but once it broken its hard to have it back. i guess were just human capable of loving and trusting someone, once u trust you gave it all. it was one of the things that hard to gain but easy to fall. for sure your uncle had broken that trust with his exwife i just hope you can help him find ways so that they will be back on each others arms. its hard to do, its a process he will undergo but if he truly love his wife he should work on it and let her feel that he still love her. i just hope everythings gonna be fine with them both.

I know you are aware of my issues with my father. So yes, I do know how easy it is to lose trust and faith in someone. I have not been able to bounce back from it, and doubt I will ever be able to trust him again. It is a shame, as he is my father, but one can only tust for so long. It is unfortunate that trust can be so easily broken.

Yes,trust is the most important thing in the relationship.And I believe that we have to treat people honestly and sincerely so we'll keep the trust between people.

I trust people very easily and when they break my trust I feel very bad but I find that time is a great healer. After some time the same thing seems very tivial compared to your whole life.

sorry to hear about your uncle. i hope that one day, he'll stand up again and prove himself trustworthy. anyway, as per experience, i had this ex boyfriend for 8 years. and he had been cheating on me every now and then. hoping that he'll change, i kept on forgiving him and giving him a chance. but last time, it did not work anymore. all my trusts were no longer there for him. and breaking up might be hard but i don't wanna end up with a man who do not deserve my trust. most healing for my heart? TIME. it took almost two years for my heart to recover. and took those times before i was able to allow myself to love again. i am in a long distance relationship now. and at first, it's too difficult to trust each other. we have some doubts and questions. but through time, we were able to really trust each other. it takes time to heal wounds and time to trust someone your whole life through. and i will never do anything to destroy my boyfriend's trust on me. i really respect our trust for each other and will never mess up with it... anne

yes trust is a viable factor in every relationship and its essential for it to survive. Once trust is lost in a relationship its very hard if not impossible to gain it back. There was a time i lost trust in one of my friends cause he kept going behind my back to tell sordid tales about me.Eventually i heard cause i told him one information that only i and him knew about it so when i heard it from another source i told him he was the culprit and a backslider. Since then i do not trust him one bit at all and i do not think we could be close as we were

Trust .which is not exist in this world,as everybody is lying to his near n dear ones .specially to his/her beloved .we will try to trust but conditions and situations make us not to trust anybody in this world .As we are seeing that nobody bothers what other person think about his/her action which is being taken by him .so plzzzz try to trust atleast somebody and if anybody trusted you then plzzz try not break his/her trust .Thats what i mean .

I lost trust in someone very dear to me. Because we were not communicating and someone else was interfering and managed to deceive him I later learned the criminal behaviors of the third person he encouraged against me. I learned 4 years later he was deceived. During those years I blamed him and was unable to trust him when I had my chance. Could I forgive him now and start building trust with him after all this? Yes but I'm sure he's done trying. He did and I couldn't when I needed to.

True indeed, I have once lost my trust in someone I love so dearly, but I was able to recover from it I learned in life that I should continue to love would it mean Goodbye or giving up my dreams because that trust has been flawed after all there is no greater love than the love that holds on where there seems nothing to hold on to. And oh one more thing TRUST is not given it is gained.

ther s nothin called trust .