Cheated Affair?

i was in a relationship long ago, where my partner cheated on me constantly, and i always found out about it too (not that he meant for me to, but i always got to know). after that relationship ended, i promised myself that i wouldn't put up with that sort of behaviour from a partner again, so now when i am with someone, i let them know plain and clear that if the cheat, they are gone. i do not mess around any more, i am too old to be putting up with someone so selfish, so i just dump them and get on with my day!

I don't think that I could forgive "real" cheating. I mean physical cheating. If they were talking to someone else, which I see as cheating too, I guess it would depend on what was said and what they were intending on doing.

There is no pat answer for that. To me it would depend on a lot of different things. Different situations call for different results. My husband cheated on me a long time ago. He was in Turkey and I was here in the states. I couldn't go with him. When he came home for whatever reason he told me he had been sleeping with a girl over there. I was furious and it took a long time to get over it but I did. I forgave him and we went on from there. We have been married for 35 years come August and I think it was well worth staying with him and working out the problem. Like I said there is no certain solution if you find out your loved one is cheating on you. It depends on the situation and if you think the relationship is worth saving and fighting for.

Hi, I had been trapped by my wife and her family, as for them marriage was only to have a child and my property in there hands. Most often my chracter projected by her to others were a villian who never loved his wife and who was to harsh to his wife. But actually I never did any which hurted my wife. Finally wife through her sister made a story and gave a false complaint to police. Finally I had to move to leagal part and now fighting to get my daughter from her and her family who cheated me well planned. Marriage has just become a business for my wife.But my precious life my daughter has been in their hands which realy make me restless. Regards Shamrack