What Would You Talk About On The Phone With Your Girlfriend?

Nigeria
June 14, 2007 8:01pm CST
see yesterday we talked on the phone and i keep asking her to speak because i can't think up of any topic.. and my girlfriend got made because she was like being ordered to talk.. and whenever i keep asking further questions such as 'why' to a topic, she said i'm in too deep to the matter.. and we ended up quarreling.. so guys.. am i wrong to keep asking her to talk? and what would u guys talk about when your on the phone with your girlfriend/boyfriend..?
4 responses
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
Usually whenever i talk with my bf either on the phone or in chat, we talked about the day to day matters. We keep each other updated on what's going on around us, who we meet, what we are thinking on that day or any type of topic. Sometimes, we reminisce the past, childhood, naughtiness..have jokes, fun, laughs talk about something with our friends, views in life, politics and a lot more. I suggest it is important for you to be open with your gf and feel free to express yourself. Share some topics or anything what comes into your mind then try to get her interest. As for me, i hate to be ask to initiate any topic. I'd rather initiate in my own than ask or command me to start the conversation. I also hate my bf that whenever i am starting the conversation, he will just say "yes" or "no" whenever i ask to, or just comment whenever i ask for his opinion on a certain topic. I feel annoyed in such kind of conversation, but i feel glad that during the conversation he give his reaction and feel free to express himself and that what makes me comfortable. I extremely appreciate to see my bf's reaction especially whenever i made him smile or laugh on our topic.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
15 Jun 07
Yesh, i think its so wrong.. Im a girl, from my point of view of her.. She will think: Why cant u start the topic, why must it be me? Personally, i think that there no need to find any topic to start talking about.. Just speak from ur heart.. Me n my bf used to have this problem too.. I will always ask him to talk.. N then he replied me with: Sometimes we dun have to talk too much, we just need to feel each others existance and know that we care and miss each other.. Tt is when i learnt that, yah true.. I mean sometimes theres really not that much to talk about... But when it comes, it comes.. So just relac and enjoy the chat.. But i must say she felt bad and u guys quarrel because nnoone likes being asked why al the time? Just be more tactful? =)
@puyol1 (194)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 07
hehe.. what an interesting topic. hmm.. i called my girlfriend everyday. but, we never run out of idea of what we wanna talk about. amazing huh? hmm.. some normal talks is like "how are you, what do eat today, do you cooked?, how's your studies, etc2".. hehe. other things that we've tlk about is like sharing our interest, sharing problems together.. quarrel? hmm, yeah sometimes.. but it always ended positively.. =) love her..
• United States
15 Jun 07
yes and no. when im on the phone, I usually just sit there in silence, lol, which is bad but sometimes I just dont know what to talk about. Ask her questions like.."how did your day go, what did you do, what are you doing tonight"...stuff like that. If she still wont talk to you about those things, id say its time to find a new girlfriend. Theres not much of a relationship there if she wont even communicate with you over the phone.