MYSPACE: A Must Read For All
By Katlady2
@Katlady2 (9904)
United States
June 14, 2007 11:35pm CST
This was sent to my email by one of my family members. I think that this applies to not only Myspace, but for any site on the internet.
EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE CHILDREN READ IT TOO!
After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:
ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!
GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you?
Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?
ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.
GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?
ByAngel213:
Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.
GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?
ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!
GoTo123:
That's great! Who did you play?
ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL
GoTo123:
What is your team called?
ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.
GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?
ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!
GoTo123:
Catch you later. Bye
Meanwhile.......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.
Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina
Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.
Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.
By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.
Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.
He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.
After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.
Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.
Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.
Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.
"Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.
"Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."
Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!
"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked.
"No," Shannon answered.
"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."
Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"
The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."
Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"
He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"
She nodded.
"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even re alizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"
"It's a promise!"
That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.
*****NOW****
EVEN FORWARD THIS TO PEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS SO THEY CAN SEND IT TO FRIENDS THAT DO HAVE CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN
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19 responses
@emarie (5442)
• United States
15 Jun 07
yeah, myspace has a page for parents and kids to know this stuff. i wasn't the most safest person online, but i did take pretty good protocals which helpped me decifer the real people from the fake. i don't encourage any of it and i don't talk much about myself to stragers anymore. this is a good lesson to learn for both parents and kids. they need to communicate with each other and both parent and child need to be properly educated on the whole internet matter.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I believe "shannon" learned another important lesson - that even police officers, who make an oathe to protect and to be honorable - and are expected to have the utmost integrity - ALSO lie, and therefore can not be trusted on instinct.
:(
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
15 Jun 07
In a way, that is true. Some officers cannot be trusted. It's been proven time and again. But at least this particular officer was doing his job on the RIGHT side of the law, instead of using his authority to hurt someone. Thanks so much for your insight hon.
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@lisado (1227)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Just so you know, this isn't a true story. Here is a link to the Urban Legend site that gives more information. http://www.snopes.com/horrors/parental/shannon.asp
Now, I'm not saying it COULDN'T happen and people do need to remember not to pass this kind of info out, I just wanted to pass the link on. It could easily happen in real life and sometimes messages like this help remind us of that.
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Thanks hon. I checked Snopes as well, but I must have missed the article altogether. But I have heard of this happening to a couple of friends of mine whose kids have Myspace accounts, and that's the whole reason I posted it. Thank you so much for your support hon.
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@lisado (1227)
• United States
17 Jun 07
The first time or two I checked I couldn't find it either, but I knew I had seen it before so I used different lines in the search and finally found it. I run most of my forwarded emails (I get tons of them from family, not to mention jokes and such) thru Snopes just to make sure they're real. Sometimes they are actually real but some details have been changed.
Like I said, I've also seen this happen. Kids don't always realise that it CAN happen to them and that not everyone who they meet on the net is who they say they are. Adults don't always remember that, either. It's a scary world out there now-a-days. That there are actually people who do this type of thing scares me. How can someone actually hurt a child??
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I got this also a week or so ago. I think it is a very important message to get out. Its so scary how you could be giving out enough details to be found without even realizing it. My oldest is only 4 but I'm already thinking about the day when she starts using the internet :( Its scary how easy it is to take advantage of people. Thanks for posting this, I hope more get the message.
@thess0312 (442)
• United States
15 Jun 07
thank you for sharing this INFO.i will forward this to my daughter.
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@sara_1995 (39)
• United States
18 Jun 07
wow this is a scary and now i am scared o myspace i can't believe this can happened i think i should print this out and show it to my friends and the kids thanks you for bringing this up
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
16 Jun 07
Gee, that story made me feel sick and gave me the shivers at the same time.
Why don't parents watch over their children???? Yes, I know you'll say you can't watch them 24 hours a day but you have to make them perfectly safe 24 hours a day...otherwise they drown, get run over and much more.
@youdontsay (3497)
• United States
18 Jun 07
This is not a true story. But it carries a good lesson.
Check it out at: http://www.snopes.com/horrors/parental/shannon.asp
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Thanks for the link hon. Lisado (comment #11 in this discussion) also pointed that out to me. But as I told her, I know of people that it actually happened to, and that's why I posted it. If nothing else, it carries a very good lesson just like you said.
@retardedrugrat (4791)
• Canada
15 Jun 07
Isn't it just frightening how easy it is to let vital information slip when someone asks a question in the right way?
I'm going to email this to everyone on my email contact list. You can never be too safe these days. It just makes me even more glad that I don't have a MySpace account!
Thanks for sharing this. It's information we all need to know!
@magicalmerlin (1623)
•
15 Jun 07
I know this had a happy ending but it was so sad it made me cry. What a state the world is in that people can't just chat without being in fear of their lives. My husband went on a course about this and lectured our children. Well they are 16 and 18 now so I think with all the lectures they have already had they know how to behave so I moaned at him. It is great that he cares so much but he makes everybody out to be a pschycopath. I am trying to build confidence thinking that people are nice really and he scares us all. I wonder about the information I have shared on MyLot and that somebody could quite easily track us to here. I must believe we are safe though. We can't spend our lives in fear caused by a few nutcases.
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
15 Jun 07
That's so true. But I do applaud your husband for caring enough to keep after the kids, even if he does go a bit overboard. So many kids have parents that don't give a rat's patootie about what they do, and that's why they end up in trouble so much. Thanks hon.
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@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
15 Jun 07
Great informatin, not only for people who have kids or grandkids, but for everybody. MY elderly mother, and my husband's elderly mother both have computers and Ihave cautioned them as well. People may not be who they seem at all.
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@sodapop (977)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Oh my goodness...that just gave me goosebumps. That is scarry. I emailed it to my daughter, (that way I know she will read it) lol...plus I emailed it to her friends and told her to email it to the rest of her friends. I even emailed it to our youth pastor and asked him to bring this to the attention at youth group meetings. I even mailed it to our pastor to see if he could work it into a sermon to warn parents. This is the kind of information we need to get out! Thanks!
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• United States
18 Jun 07
wow.... that was a crazy thing....I will make sure i forward it to all my friends!!
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@brendalee (6082)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Thanks Katlady. I made sure my boyfriends 15 year old son read it. I am constantly telling him the dangers of the internet and most of the time he thinks I am just being mean. I hope he really thinks about this story.
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@cwilson26 (2735)
• United States
17 Jun 07
This gave me chills and brought tears to my eyes. My sister and my 10 year old niece need to read this. My sister has let my niece put their computer in her room and I don't think she should have done this. I think she should have the computer downstairs where she can keep an eye on her while using it. She is online all the time and she has even been roaming around Myspace. My sister knows and says it's fine but I don't think it is. I have told my niece to not talk to anyone she doesn't know and to not chat with anyone except for her school friends. When she comes here and wants to get online I sit here and watch her like a hawk and remind her not to talk to anyone.
Thanks so much for posting this. I have copied and pasted it in my notepad and am going to send it to my sister and my niece both and tell her to send it to all of her friends. This is scary stuff. I am glad this one came out to be a happy ending but so many do not. Thank you SO much for this. :)
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Oh I hope this helps your sister to see how necessary it is for her to keep a close eye on what her daughter is doing while on the internet. I agree that the computer should be in the family area instead of in your niece's room, so that it's easier to see what's going on. Thank you hon.
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@tdbrower1969 (1242)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I have seen this e-mail before, someone sent it to me, but I think that it is a really good idea to keep it circulating. With all the missing children cases that seem to be popping up, the children in our world need to know how easy it is for someone to ask them a question online and get the info they need to find them. Thank you for posting this, I will pass it on, too.
@sangram112 (103)
• India
15 Jun 07
Waoh !!! i my self have been through this.. giving out info. but my friend helped me a lot.. ithink we must help kids cause they really dont know unsfe it is !! thanx a lot 4 the story i'm gonna print it and pass it around / hare krishna
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