I tried it and it worked within seconds!!!
By yanjiaren
@yanjiaren (9031)
June 15, 2007 6:55am CST
O.K you know I had a bit of a dumba dumba with hubby yesterday..well something worked with changing the way I think lol..
I decided not to be afraid of losing him..
I said to upstairs look..I know love is unconditional and he is free to go and i will always be there for himn in whatever capacity he needs me in and wants..I do not control him but I hope my love in whatever form he needs it in will nurture him..I am not afraid to lose because love has no price and must be given freely..
So putting my female emotions aside...waited and in the end he phoned, me, invited me on chat and emailed me..this morning I was watching the Secret Movie and and tried something that worked within 50 seconds..I just held the thought in my mind with the desired result and low and behold the email exactly as I envisioned it appeared..this morning I had a great conversation with hubby like nothing happened..
Wel positive thinking and being opened minded does help..eliminating the fear of loss I think is the big one..THAT was my main weakness..now I know how to nip it in the bud, I will be able to control it..it's up to me man..try it..Doesn't matter what religion or persuasion we are..Laws of the Universe really are the same every where man.got proof of that now..Where is Wolfie? I have to give him a low down of this..it's fun..I am off to cook for the kids and write out my list for Upstairs lol..
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12 responses
@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Okay, where is the "Secret" movie, I have heard about it, but have not taken the time to watch it. I am glad that you are feeling the freedom of turning loose. Open hands and hearts are good. Did your hubby have anything to say about how aloof he had been? I know, it does not matter, as you are just opening yourself up, and just responsible for yourself, for your feelings. I am glad it is making you much more in touch with your inner self and with the universe. Fear paralyzes.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I saw a post by Dale, I thought I bookmarked it, but do not see it right now. Yes, I am one of your Jemmy compoounders, I opted for quarterly. You probably have it written down somewhere. I need to do some concentrating on the stuff I have available here. Interviewed for another job outside of the home, but the driving and the stress are not going to be for me. I like what I do during the school year, just do not like being broke during the summer.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
21 Jun 07
Well, I am being stopped at every turn online, except myLot and Jemmy. Thanks for the best response.
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
Awww, you must be one lucky fellow. Having the gift to work on your law of attraction quickly. I once tried it before. Something must be wrong because the opposite happened, LOL. Just kidding. Never done it but am getting inspired with your revelation.
I did heard about this book. Better check the movie as this might help straighten my insanity. Good for you. Will you be so kind to use The Secret to think of good wishes for me too. You know what my wishes are. "smile"
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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15 Jun 07
it's in that thing i want to send you later, so you will see it,..I will post you the link o.k?
imagine loads of five bucks coming your way through that one link lol..
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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15 Jun 07
yeap it will just manifest in time my friend..got a bit delayed cooking and cleaning lol..will be there with you..
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
15 Jun 07
Alright sis, spill the beans, you've got upstairs then? A lodger, another man? Some people have all the luck lol! There is no one upstairs for me, the lights are on but no one is in! Joviality aside I'm glad you've sorted it out, had me worried there, it's you who's supposed to be supporting me when I'm being the MG (miserable git!) so here's a hug ;0)
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@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
15 Jun 07
I don't know if you read my post yesterday but I was asking where was your Greek spirit...I see today you find it.I'm happy for you.You see how everything turn to be more than fine.
Telling the truth I get little mad reading some of you r responses yesterday.They bring the disaster and they didn't courage at all.Anyway everything are fine .
Pali magirevis esi?Kita min ti kapsis lol:
@magicalmerlin (1623)
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15 Jun 07
Congratulations. I did not comment yesterday as you had so many replies already and I was short of time. I am so pleased things are going better today.
I refused to believe that just thinking positively could make any difference whatsoever but things just seemed to get worse and worse. So I am trying it. At least I try to spot the positive things in situations and focus on them. It is seeming to make me a brighter person and people respond well to that anyway. MyLot has been great to help with my confidence.
@yanjiaren (9031)
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15 Jun 07
We all need to give each other a a big hug, like the tellytubbies and everything will be better..
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@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I never watched the movie, but I did read the book 'The Secret' and I have applied some of the methods they suggest in my own life and I can honestly say it really does work. Good for you for conquering one of your fears. Fear is really what holds us back from success in our lives and this book really does address how to overcome fears. I also agree that the law of attraction is universal. I wish they would teach this stuff in school to children everywhere. There would be a lot less hate and a lot less war since all hate and war is really rooted in fear.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
15 Jun 07
sometimes, the fears we have inside are the ones dragging us down and putting hurt into the relationship. through our fears, we result to having low self esteem, low faith and low self confidence. from there, we lose the trust in the relationship thinking that it might fail one day.
but, thinking positively strengthens the relationship. less stress for both parties and less worries. no need to fear things that we always think of. and we are mostly focused on the happy future we will have with our partner together... anne
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
15 Jun 07
by the way, i am so happy for you 'el! keep up the positive thoughts!... anne
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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18 Jun 07
thank you so much always for your positive thoughts my lovely friend..
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
15 Jun 07
i am so happy yanji. pls keep up the spirit.
love is a strange thing and i feel the best is to set it free and if it comes back it is yours and if it doesn't then it was never...
i am sure he is yours..
smiles.......
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
18 Jun 07
of course it does! i have been saying that for month on here now! it works and it is such a great feeling knowing that you do have some control over what happens to you and your life
@yanjiaren (9031)
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18 Jun 07
Yeap and you know what happened yesterday? I kept saying my Tre is going to grow and someone wiull join it today..and guess what? One of my frontliners, he is an avid Mylotter here got his first sign up which is on my second level lol!
@steney (1418)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
I'm happy for you, yan. Worrying only makes us depressed and helpless. It doesn't do any good and it doesn't solve the problem. But if we raise all our worries to the big man upstairs, then we feel relieved and unburdened. I remember the song "Lift up your hands to God" there's a line that says "And He said cast your burdens upon me, those who are heavily laden. Come to me all of you who are tired for carrying heavy loads. For the yoke I will give you is easy, and my burden is light. Come to me and I will give you rest." Whenever I'm down and all else fails, I just repeat this song in my head and just leave it all up to Him. And He takes care of it always. :)
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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18 Jun 07
The Almighty does and thanks for your beautiful response..I love Mylot and I love all of you!!!
@yanjiaren (9031)
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18 Jun 07
It does work..I have also been fighting off this flu with a vengeance lol..
