Ending Bad Relationships & Letting Go. Which Are You Holding On Or Letting Go?

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In the road of life there are no sure things and the least of all is how a relationship is going to go and end up. Is it going to last a long time or is it going to be a bad relationship and you have to break up with the person. We don't know the answer to this at the beginning of a relationship. A lot of times the people we are going out with are on their best behavior until well into the relationship. Sometimes even until that final commentment is made. So the best a person can do is make the experience a learning experience and learn to benefit from the mistake. Look at what went wrong and don't follow that path again. Read this and tell me if you agree with it. I do. "Relationships that do not end peacefully, do not end at all." -- Merrit Malloy ******************************************************************** It takes a lot of energy to drag a relationship around after it has ended. Sometimes we hold on to the anger and shame because we've become so used to it, it's the only way we feel alive. Sometimes we hold on because we want to punish the person or persons who hurt us. But in reality, holding on to the memory of a painful relationship after it has ended does us about as much good as carrying the enemy on our back everywhere we go. The enemy gets a free ride and we get a sore back. Doesn't seem quite fair does it? There is another way, of course. We can acknowledge that the real purpose of the relationship is for giving us an opportunity to grow, and then let go of the hurt and move on. May your always be willing to let go of what no longer serves you.