Psycho EX's!
@anewbeginning0601 (37)
United States
June 15, 2007 2:09pm CST
So I am dating someone who is recently divorced, and his ex wife and him have 2 babies together. She is completely psycho, emailing me, calling me, distroying his possessions and such. Well... she is now looking me up, trying to find something wrong with me, like she has nothing better to do. I dont really care, because she wont find anything, but I just wnat the drama to stop. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get her to stop? She wants to tkae her ex back to court to get custody of the boys, because she doesnt want me near them... Which I dont understand, I have full custody of my son... Im not a criminal, have a clean record. Im just getitng frustrated, and he doesnt want me to contact her back, even after the treats. I know she wont hurt me, but its still a constant thing, after 2 weeks of us dating...
3 responses
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
15 Jun 07
You could file haresment charges or you can just plain ignore her ,if your boyfriend dosnt want you to get involved than you should make it clear that what she is doing id harrasment and it needs to be stoped. How did she get your e-mail?Also you can bring these things up in cout if she was to rake him for coustody.F or now i would just iggy her as it takes a stronger woman to not argue back with her.
@anewbeginning0601 (37)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I thought abotu the harassment charges, but i dont think she will do anything. My boyfriend knwos about the harassemnt, and has tried to stop her, but shes crazy, she does what she wants. She got my myspace, because of me being on his myspace. She got my number out of his phone. its been crazy. i have kept all the emails, and such, in case she does take him to court. I dont see how she thinks she will get custody, because hes dating... it makes no sense. I havent responded to one of her 20 emails she has sent, and I have nto answered the phone when she calls me. I dont wnat to fight back, I jsut want it to stop....
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Well I may be tempted to send her a message that everything she is sending and any calls are being recorded and will be used in court, and maby she will than stop.
What she is doing is not good for the children,hopefully iy will all come out in the end, good luck my prayers are with you.
@HighReed1 (1126)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Wow! Sounds like you have your hands full!
I would suggest you print out all of her e-mails. Don't talk to her. Then if she DOES take him to court, he will have proof that she is unstable.
The only way to deal with someone like that is to ignore her. I know it will be hard, but if you pay her no mind it will take the wind out of her sails. Trust me. I have experience dealing with a nutjob just like her!
@speedy1279 (2665)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Hey sweetie! Well I see things aren't getting any better. You know how I feel about this situation. You need to press charges for harrassement, especially since she has threatend you. I am glad you are still keeping copies of everything. Best of luck sweetie and I here if you need to talk. OH, by the way sorry I have been quiet this week. The week has not gotten any better for me. Talk to you later!!!
