Single or married???
By paradise12
@paradise12 (938)
India
June 15, 2007 11:09pm CST
what do you think single status is much more enjoyable or in marriage you enjoy a lot??Do you ever give a stange look to those people who are single and live alone??.......
I feel that how can a person can live alone without marrying...Won't he or she feel alone and do they seriously like their life..
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10 responses
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
16 Jun 07
hello,paradise,i am a single person and i can say i enjoy being single right now.I do not need to respond to anyone and i can enjoy what i want to do without any restrictions.
Some of my friends have been married,honestly i can say sometimes i will ask myself why i am single,but i will tell myself i will wait for my Mr right and get married with him,he has not appeared yet.
Marrying may not be suitable for everyone,some people just want to have freedom in their life,they may not even feel lonely.But for me,i can say ,i hope i can get married and hav a happy family life.
@paradise12 (938)
• India
16 Jun 07
Thats really nice of you..I am sure you wpould find your right person,till then enjoy your single status...thanks for your respone..
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@tinamwhite (3252)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Well, I enjoy being married...this time anyway...LOL
I do understand why some people remain single....I do not think that they feel lonely like you would typically imagine....they find other things/realtionships to make up the "loss" we perceive in their lack of a long-term realtionship....
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@paradise12 (938)
• India
16 Jun 07
Well i consider a relationship with your partner is a very special one and no other relation can upto that level....Thanks for your response.....
@mari_skye (1637)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
Being single doesn't mean feeling alone. I believe getting married or staying single is a personal choice. There are single people out there who are enjoying their single blessedness.
@steven318 (469)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 07
yeah.. that is great...
single realy wont be alone as long as we feel happy...
but marriage can be share everything
@paradise12 (938)
• India
16 Jun 07
You may be right about it i have never seen single people enjoying their life so i need more experience about it.....Anyways thanks for your response....
@LoovesAmethyst (351)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
I am single and I am enjoying every minute of it. ;)
I think staying single is a matter of choice. Being single is not a bad thing and what I think is most important is that you are happy with yourself and with your life whether you stay being single or in married status. I have nothing against marriage. In fact, I hope I would finally meet the right guy, get married and established my own family in the future. But, I do not rush on things.
@paradise12 (938)
• India
16 Jun 07
Yaa thats true you should never make haste decisions in this matter...Thanks for your response.......
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@steven318 (469)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 07
erm.. i think bot also have thier own good...
single enjoyable without worry about anything for the partner...
but the marriage type will focus on 2 person thing...
but can share evertthing together
@paradise12 (938)
• India
17 Jun 07
I agree with you.You can your happiness and problems with your partner and vice versa..Thanks for your response.......
@paradise12 (938)
• India
16 Jun 07
That is true but i feel with responsibilities and people around you you tend to enjoy a lot...thanks for your response..
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@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
13 Jul 07
the garden on the other side of the fence always seems greener. This is a general human tendency.
So when a person is bachelor, he always wants to get married (generally with most of the bachelors when they become of marriageable age). And they can enumerate all the benefits that a married person has.
After marriage, the same person now feels that he was better off while he was a bachelor.
So this continues on an on for almost each individual.
But then one must remember, there are advantages and disadvantages on both the sides of the fence.
@LadyDulce (830)
• United States
16 Jul 07
I strongly prefer being single, especially now that I have my son to raise. I enjoy not having to share his kisses (so shoot me, I'm selfish), nor having to check with anyone regarding his upbringing. I also enjoy the freedom to spend time with more than one person without worrying about how it will look to my mate. I don't have the time for most men's baggage. I do what I please when I please for as long as I please. I have my own things and I like it. I'm more confident in my femininity when I'm single too, lol.
Blessed Be
@devilinu (105)
• India
3 Jul 07
single without doubt
hv seen njoy the bst relations...the fairytales kinda
n also the worst.....i think its better to b alone...as long as u hv lovely frnds like mine....theres jus no need or the place 4 a gf....
altough i wud b a mess if one of them proposes...wudnt know wat to do then...but thats a impossibility....
so...njoy frndship wich u may notice is more longer than affairs....mostly
@jen_n514 (218)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
i guess being single is much enjoyable bec you dont have any responsibilities to think of...:D and i havent experience to be married. :D
i'm not saying that i want to be single forver...maybe haven't met the right guy...but of course i want to have a family of my own in the future...
i guess growing old alone is not FUN...:D
keep smiling..:D