Does "pressure" Piss Ladies Off ?
By fellowlife
@fellowlife (988)
Nigeria
June 15, 2007 11:11pm CST
Ladies, How true is it that you guys really don't like too "pressure" from a guy. Pressure in the sense that, the guy is trying very hard to convince you about his feelings for you. Is it true that such pressure "piss" you ladies off ? If that's true, then why?
Please, am not being silly. Am just trying to finish up my research.
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4 responses
@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
16 Jun 07
It doesn't really "piss" me off, though I might get a little annoyed because of the pressure that I feel.
It's really much better for a guy to be friendly and be nice and not try too hard. Make sure that the lady really knows that he is interested, then leave her to make a decision. He could still call her occasionally but every single hour, that would be too much.
It can be irritating if a guy calls constantly and harrasses one constantly.
@listenup (29)
• United States
16 Jun 07
FSCAries hit the nail on the head...you either feel something or you don't. If you have to convince someone that you feel strongly for them, then the feeling is not mutual.
That kind of persistance becomes annoying if you've let the guy know that all you will be are friends and he is still pursuing it. At that point the annoyance would piss me off after trying to clear the air.
@abedelrahman1 (356)
• United States
16 Jun 07
for guys the most common answers is probably no, but since girls are more sensitive than guys it they will probably stop seeing the person.
@FSCAries (881)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I don't know about pissing me off, but for me there is not supposed to be any convincing to it. I think if a guy has feelings for me, I will feel it. It's not hard to read a person I don't think, and if a person really cares about you they would show you, let you know by their actions, both in things that they do do and things that they no longer do. I think if a guy has to be trying to MAKE you know he has feelings for you, then something probably isn't right.