What makes divorce rate increase?
By mari123
@mari123 (1861)
China
June 16, 2007 4:43am CST
Ten years ago, when you asked your friends about his or her marriage,
"i am divorced" if his/her answer was this, you surely be surprised.
but nowadays, it is quite common, it happens frequently and will never be
shame when people talked about it.
Among my friends, three guys have been divorced, a close friend who lives
in Canada, two years before, stepped into the third marriage of her lifetime.
looking at her happy smile in the picture, i just wish their combination last
long, as long as possible.
Today read a report on newspaper, which indicates that the country's divorce
rate has been increasing rapidly since 2002, for example, in 2006, a total of
1785000 couples divorced, 120000 more than in the previous year in our country!
I was shocked by this survey, what kind of elements split the family into two parts?
personal trouble? society problem? temptation or family violence?
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7 responses
@tracy1985 (654)
• China
17 Jun 07
I think the most important reason is money,in the modern society,there are so many tempters in the society,and more and more people need it.so they can not resist these tempters,and lots of marriages are broken up for those.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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16 Jun 07
i think as life expectency increases, so dissatisfaction within marriages also displays itself. Also, as affluence and female equality become much more obvious on the social map it is much easier for a woman to walk away from an unhappy marriage than was previously the case. In England, when legislation allowing divorce first was passed sometime in the 19th century, there was a huge increase in divorce, as the legislation highlighted just how many empty shell marriages had existed. In conclusion, i would say divorce increases at trimes of rapid social change and can therefore be seen as a symptom of the relative health (or otherwise) of our society
blessed be
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
16 Jun 07
This is because of lack of mutual understanding. Self dependancy is also one of the reasons. Women are getting good jobs and attractive salaries. Self confidence is very high now as compared to past. In education field, women are ahead to men. Government is also introducing many development programmes for women. Media, news papers etc is giving much stress on women's growth in every field. Violence in family is the last reason for divorce. When woman sees that her life is not safe with someone, she decides to quit resulting in divorce. In some cases, divorce is good also. In this way conflict in family ends up. Both can start a new life as per their choice.
@senthil2k (1500)
• India
16 Jun 07
I feel the lack of understanding between the couple is the primary reason for the increasing rate of divorces in the world. Couple should try to understand the positive and negatives of the other and try to cope up with that.
Understand that nobody is perfect in the world. One another reason for the divorce is the family cultural conflicts. Most of the recent divorces I know , what due to cultural conflicts among the family of the couple. Try to give up for the other and you wont feel the need for the divorce.
@harikrishnarao (42)
• India
16 Jun 07
Most of the diverse happens because of ego problems and
lack of mutual understndings with the couples.
A small issue blown up and make things worse. You need both the hands to blow a clap. You cannot do it from one hand. One has to adjust with themselves to run the showLIFE IS FULL OF ADJUSTMENTS!
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@sweetleilani79 (104)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
I believe emotional and financial issues are one of the few reasons for the increase in divorce cases now. Emotional would be if the couple has fallen out of love for each other...for the reason that they weren't really emotionally ready for marriage. Another would be financial. Due to the hardships in life...some marriages failed. There are so many temptations and challenges marriages face right now....and that is one reason why I want to be sure of myself, emotional and physically and financially and of course be sure of the person i want to spend the rest of my life with.
