girl problem / myLot

By Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

United States

October 24, 2006 3:24am CST

I'm in love with two girls one get's along with me but the other is beautiful what should I do?

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21 responses

sbeauty

@sbeauty (5865)

• United States

27 Oct 06

The old adage says that a bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush. I could paraphrase it in your case. I girl who likes you is worth 2 beautiful ones who don't.

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sbeauty

@sbeauty (5865)

• United States

27 Oct 06

What's the problem with both the pretty one and the nice one?

Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

27 Oct 06

well nothing I just can't decide between both of them. I mean I have a good time with the pretty one until she gets mad then she turns into a whole different person and It makes me want to leave her. the nice one even when she gets mad doesn't go to the extremes the other one does. and we rarely get mad at eachother.

Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

27 Oct 06

yeah the problem is that both the pretty one and the nice one.

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justme777

@justme777 (446)

• United States

27 Oct 06

Ask your heart and It will defenatly give you the answer!!!

Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

27 Oct 06

I was thinking that maybe I could learn to have the feelings for the prettier one like i have for the nice one what do you think?

justme777

@justme777 (446)

• United States

27 Oct 06

I think that this is posibility and you just have to try...

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justme777

@justme777 (446)

• United States

27 Oct 06

Also try not to look on a prytier ones but on the ladies who have a good character and are nice!!!

rakleen

@rakleen (565)

• India

24 Oct 06

how can u handle 2 at one go

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Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

27 Oct 06

well I try to make time for both. If I'm not with one of them more than likely I'm with the other one. I turn my cell off so they can't call and get found out.

megainfobites

@megainfobites (630)

• United States

27 Oct 06

Dude, if you've got the skills and the cash, try to date both. Cheers!

Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

27 Oct 06

cool man thanks but the thing is I don't want to end up getting caught up and losing both.

prashantjadhav

@prashantjadhav (96)

• India

24 Oct 06

hey budy, Check the inner beauty. Don't go jut by outer look of anybody. Check with ur heart, to whom u really love.

Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

27 Oct 06

thank you I was thinking of the same thing but there's still something that draws me to the other one.

CosmicNeko

@CosmicNeko (19)

• United States

27 Oct 06

Love shouldn't be about who's prettier. Physical attraction can only go so deep for so long. I suggest getting to know both girls much better before deciding to give your heart to one of them...especially if you're even considering choosing one over the other just for her looks. That's a sign you may not really be ready to commit. There's nothing more painful in the world of love than hearing someone say "i chose her because she's prettier, even though we get along fabulously". Think about how the other person would feel...:( it would really crush them and make them resent you. Good luck!

Manny21

@Manny21 (39)

• United States

28 Oct 06

I appreciate your response and I'm thinking of going for the nicer one because like you said looks aren't as deep as real feelings.

dellion

@dellion (6698)

• Malaysia

28 Oct 06

My advise to you......don't greedy!

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universalsudhir

@universalsudhir (215)

• India

27 Oct 06

dont know..

Himansu

@Himansu (793)

• India

27 Oct 06

Select One Whether Phycically beautiful or ... If your Lover is a Good Girl then just Forgot her beauty.Feel her Heart and Her Love

wwwShyBodyJewelrycom

@wwwShyBodyJewelrycom (916)

• United States

28 Oct 06

You need to figure out which one makes you happiest!!

wwwShyBodyJewelrycom

@wwwShyBodyJewelrycom (916)

• United States

28 Oct 06

You need to figure out which one makes you happiest.

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Thabith

@Thabith (4)

• India

28 Oct 06

be smart, out smart them both... make reasons so that both are satisfied... now how to bring in the management is just try thinking how a wife of a film actor is tolerating... so find something in one and tell to the other its not love its only acting,

klavs_r

@klavs_r (134)

• Latvia

27 Oct 06

sounds funky :D

stingatnet

@stingatnet (394)

• India

28 Oct 06

find out who loves u a lot than u do

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maya_n_bennett

@maya_n_bennett (4687)

• United States

27 Oct 06

I would go for the one that get along with because even other girl is beautiful now, beauty will be gone when we all get old.

MrsFrizzle

@MrsFrizzle (1963)

• United States

27 Oct 06

I would say date the one you get a long with. The other may be bueitiful but if you can not get along what is the point.

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psmohan

@psmohan (1877)

• India

24 Oct 06

Select only one and go all out to make her yours. Find out who loves you more.Slect her. Forget a bout the beauty.

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cyberfluf

@cyberfluf (4996)

• Netherlands

24 Oct 06

Do you want a girlfriend for staring at her for hours or someone you can spend quality time with, have fun and be happy? Consider that first and then choose who you'd rather want to be with. Get to know them better and see who turns out be the best match for you. At least be honest about it and don't date both girls at the same time; or you'll loose them both.