Wish things were different!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would change my life or at least wish things was different except I would love to see my daughter alive and living. That's the only thing I would wish was different but there's nothing I can but accept that and just keep her in my heart and in my sons life too. (who's her little brother) :)

I know how you feel, but it is not because of my marriage, they are just that way. I never see my grandpa or my aunts and uncles, I have a large family also and they do not live very far from where I do. They do not call or come by, if I call they act like it kills them to talk to me. We are never invited to have a family dinner or anything, they have all held a grudge against me and my brother since our mother passed away, like we could help that she was ill to begin with. But, thankfully for me, I have a great set of in-laws that treat me as one of their own. This whole thing was not so bad until my grandmother passed away four years ago, but is wasn't too good then either, because they didn't want her to have anything to do with us, so for 22 years, I have been suffering from something that I had no control over.

You didn't mention why they are against your marriage or what caused them to stop talking to you.Have you tried contacting them and telling them, that even though they may not agree with your choices,you still lovea and miss them and want them in your life. If they still refuse to talk to you, or reject you outright, then there must be a lot more to this than meets the eye. Were you close with your family before you married? Are there good reasons why, they are so against your marriage.There's a lot you left out of our discussion here, so I really have no other suggestions for you, except the one I stated earlier.

Dont feel so bad ! Time can heal certain matters ! How can your family not talk to you for such a long time, if they love you??? There are certain pains you have overcome in life ! You married the person you loved and he is with you in this journey of life. Just think of the future and take steps to settle your life. When you show them that you made the right choice with your life, things will gradually come in place ! But have to say, it will take time...sometimes a very long time ! Just wait and see..Take life as a challenge and fight it... If you truly want to get back with your family like old times, then you have to take the necessary and wise steps... So, just think and act accordingly...Everything will be in the right place, just like you wanted... Good luck !

I understand, sometimes family needs space and time to adjust. I imagine they miss you too. Instead of being sad, use your imagination to picture all of you happilly together, getting along. Instead of being hurt, send them blessings of love. And when you think it will never happen, tell yourself, "My family is finding peace with my choices and we are on our way to re-unitung" or something like that. Positive Thinking has great power!