Stripping...

well, If I find it out, that my beloved is stripping for money, I'd get a little upset that she didn't ask for help from me! I'd have financed her and comforted her.. but if she's doing it just to show her body and feel wanted then nooooooooo I'd definately let go!

Well for a male 'exotic dancer' there is only one thing the girls are gagging to see and there is not much point in keeping it covered. haha Would it turn you on more if I kept my socks on? Would my wife be upset? I doubt it as I let it all hang out on a beach anyway - for free. haha

well what a mean thing to do to ur partner.If i come to know of such a thing then i would break up with her. And i will never meet her again for the rest of my life.

nothing wrong with stripping if you have the body for it, why not? However, if you are deceiving your partner and stripping without their knowledge, then something else is very wrong blessed be

I would not like it if my BF was stripping for cash. I would not like that at all. I have heard to many stories where the woman actually fall in love with the strippers and they take it to the next level too. On the other hand if it were my 22 year old son then I would be proud of him LOL! weird huh?

If I found out a loved one was stripping I wouldnt judge them at all..they obviously need to make a living too BUT I would ask them why they chose to strip of all things. Now if it was my man stripping I WOULD NOT allow that crap to go on if he was with me, I dont want no other chicks trying to grab on his goods which are suppose to be for me only! that would bother me very much and I wouldnt be with a guy who stripped..just my opinion

The only thing I'd be ticked about is the fact that he didnt tell me...especially since I was a stripper for yrs...If it was a friend I'd be cool with it, but I'd want to know why and I'd give them my standard lecture on the ins and outs of the biz these days which is totally different to when I started and was in it (though the change took place while I was in the biz and is the key reason I got out)

I would be really mad because they kept a lie from me, and lieing in a relationship is never good, no matter what the circumstances. Unless it's a little white lie, but that certainly wouldn't qualify as a little white lie! I think that I would also be upset because if they are stripping in front of other people, who knows what else they are doing? I would be furious! Lol.

The nicer name for it is now "exotic dancing" which makes me laugh! One of my daughters was an "exotic dancer" for years in Los Angeles and at first I wasn't too thrilled but got used to the idea. She actually met her husband while she was dancing which I find very funny to this day. She never stripped down to nothing and I was very happy about that.

If it was a loved one, I'd want them to get out of it as soon as possible. The longer you stay in, the harder it is to say no when people offer you 1200 bucks for something extra. If it was my partner, as long as he wasn't currently doing it I wouldn't really care.

I don't think that it would go over too well with me if they were doing it behind my back. If they came to me upfront and let me know, that would be a different story. People have to do what they have to do. But doing it secretively would definitely get me hot, because if you aren't doing anything wrong, then why do you have to hide it?

Stripping is a new/old concept. I was a "GO GO Dancer" for 9 years 1975-1984 when I retired to have children, I was making $20 per hr average gig was 7 hours. I worked on stage only 30 min per hr but was paid for the full hour. On top of that, I averaged $200 per night in tips. I suppose I was lucky, I would NOT put up with what goes on now. In the days before my time there were burlesque halls where the "strippers" paraded with feathers or baloons "flashing" a little. And they did a "strip tease" Tease being the word. They did not get naked and slide on a pole. When I was a dancer, we had poles. The pole was not the main attraction like it is now. We wouldn't DREAM of paying the club to work there, WHAT ENTERTAINER would?!? We also stayed on the stage or at least behind the bar. I don't understand what happened, but it was something horrible. You can see pix from way back then by going to myspace it will be easy to find me there, same name. As far as a partner (male) stripping... Honestly, I've always felt embarassed for them, the ones that weren't gay anyway. It's not a good job anymore if you see it from how it has just gone into the sewer compared to what it was. No one DARED to call me a stripper when I was a dancer, not even a "gogo girl" I took offense. And I still cringe at the term...it's degrading to me. The dancers need to form a union and take back the profession. Exotic Dance is an art form if you all decide to keep it that way. Make yourselves worth the money. And one last thing... Once a woman is naked, what's left for a man to want? At least keep a pair of stockings on, you will be surprised at how much$ you will be offered for the stockings!

hmmmmmmmmm. If its just stripping (no contact) I might be ok with that I think. But if its more than that no way. people have every right to choose how the get their money (as long as its legal). If its my husband again as long as there is nothing else going on I would be 51% ok but not 100%.

I will ask how much the job pays and if there is any opening for a new stripper.