children to play taekwondo, would you let yours?
By archer1811
@archer1811 (1098)
Philippines
June 17, 2007 2:04am CST
My son is 5yrs old and he is in grade 1 now, his school send letters for the parents if they want their children to take a taekwondo class, my worry is on his age isnt it its too early for him to join that kind of sport? His bone is still young and maybe he only get hurt when he joined and come home crying because of injury, so i didnt signed the paper and didnt let my son joined, did i ruin my childs happiness by not letting him experience that kind of sports? Maybe much better if he join next year he's a little older by that time.
If you have a child in that age would you let him/her join taekwondo class? Do share your thoughts please....Thank you in advance!!!
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18 responses
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Hello archer. I was perplexed when you mentioned that your son is 5 years old and apparently, a grade 1 student already. Grade 1 schoolers usually had an age bracket between 6 and 7.
Taekwondo class is supposed to have different levels of workshop for each individual. It might be better for you to talk with the instructor concerning your son's age. My youngest girl took taekwondo for 12 sessions this past summer. She took part the beginner's level which include a one-on-one training for half an hour with the head instructor. Her bones is still intact, LOL!
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Actually he is 5yrs and 6months old, on december he'll be 6yrs old, he skipped kinder, he only took nursery and preparatory, and now he's on grade 1, it's not easy to look for the school for him on his age but this new school of him gave us a condition that he'll be taking an entrance exam and if he pass that exam they'll accept him, lucky that he did it, before the school year started we try to look for a new school for him and others refused to accept because of his age. He started going to school when he was 3 1/2yrs old.
My husband want him to attend taekwondo but i am so worried about him, so he says we will try next year.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
Hi charms! good for your daughter hope someday she can join in a competition. You know what we actually have a hard time looking for the school for my son because of his age, some schools we inquired last summer want my child to attend again a preparatory level in their school, but at last we find these one. Thanks
@sakana (260)
• Singapore
17 Jun 07
Kids get less flexible as they grow up. I wish I took dance and martial arts classes when I was young so I would be stronger, fitter and more flexible. I think martial arts are a good way to train kids how to tolerate pain and persevere, which can probably help in studies or anything later in life. Also it teaches self-defence and self-esteem so your son will turn out more confident! My instructor says the best age to start courses like these would be around 6-8, so it's probably a good idea to wait a little while before joining :)
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@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
You're right there, maybe we'll try him join next year, he'll be 6 1/2 then, thanks for your good idea.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Jun 07
I do not believe age 5 is too early to start. Martial arts is great to build self esteem, self control, respect and discipline (all values I think kids need). Don't worry the little ones usually just focus on learning the core moves. Most of those places will allow you to come in and preview a class and/or take a free class. When my son was 7 he took JuJitSu and Taekwondo when we lived in Texas and loved it.
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@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
I already asked my son if he want, and if he wanted to we will let him join but he said that he dont like. Maybe next year we'll try him to join. Thanks for sharing.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
17 Jun 07
Hello,archer1811,i do not have any children,but i think it will be fine for a 5 years old child to practice taekwondo,as i know there are kids doing it at this age.
But I agree with you,your child may suffer from some pain after class,it is unavoidable to have minor injury in practising taekwondo,may be you can consider it as a challenge for him so that his mind can be stonger when grow up.
I do not think you are wrong not letting him go fot it,if he likes it,you can still let him do it next year.No worry.
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@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Thanks a lot easy, yeah we're planning to join him next year by that time he's already 6 1/2yr old.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
17 Jun 07
I feel that it is all right that children learn and play taekwondo. I have always advocate that children need to know the art of self-defence. It builds their confidence through their interaction with other children. No doubt, confidence can be built in other ways, but I find taekwondo has an added advantage in that they teach children to be independent. Besides, it is easier for little children to adapt and master the art of self-defence.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Jun 07
it is said that it's better if kids will start in an early age. i think instructors will ofcourse look at the kids' welfare, too. they won't let kids getting hurt. they will make sure that they are safe, too.
yup. it's about learning self-defense and then, gaining confidence. they, too can gain self discipline and know the meaining of being responsible. good thing is they interact with other children who are disciplined, too. it's one good way for kids to be at. they'll surely enjoy trainings... anne
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
you both right, maybe am just worrying about his health. Thanks for sharing your thought.
@gjohnrod (34)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
yes it is great i also learned taekwondo at that age.you shouldn't be overprotective of your kid teach him how to be brave and boost his confidence, to be tough, to be like a man, to be a warrior.when something happens dont cry with him rather encourage him to be the best. failures are just lessons to be learned and to keep in mind never to fail again.give him a choice.
when i was a kid i was such a looser in taekwondo but it didn't discourage me at all but have driven me to be the best.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
great job! congratulation! hope my son made it next year.Thanks for the response.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Jun 07
it's better if you talked to your child first. he might be really interested in it and you stopped his interest. he might find it interesting to join when he's a year older already. his interest is now and today, so, you atleast should have talked to him and explained your side and atleast hear him out first.
i knew a lot of kids who had learned taekwando even when they are four or five. and they aren't really hurting themselves. they are just having fun. they won't be told to have combats. they will just perform some exercises. and they just think of it like playing a game. most of all, at an early age, kids will be trained on self discipline. it's what they really get from learning martial arts... anne
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
We talked already and he dont want to join the clinic, so its final. We will try him next year. Thanks for sharing.
@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
18 Jun 07
My daughter has been taking taekwondo for several years. She is a Red Belt working towards her Black Stripe. Granted she did not start at five years old, but I do not believe they push the little kids as hard as they do the big kids. For one thing, the little kids will be sparring with kids their own size... when they get to sparring. At first they learn patterns and discipline. The experience also builds self-esteem.
I never watch my daughter at class and never even went to a tournament last year. I've been to two and both times she got injured and I cried and wanted to go to her. My husband told me we couldn't and that it was up to them to learn how to recover. It is a learning experience that makes them tough. But like I said, a five year old with little strength will be up against a five year old with little strength.
Also, they have good work out. They do the patterns, they do sit-ups, they run. It is great exercise and builds their muscles so that they can handle the sparring.
AND, they are not required to compete at competitions. They can just go to classes. It was awhile before my daughter started going to competitions. Now, you should see the shelf full of trophies and wall full of medals. She is very proud, and very strong. The instructors would not allow the children to get seriously hurt. They are taught the proper way to spar so that they don't injure the other person, and they are well protected in gear.
I wouldn't worry. I never did worry when we put our daughter in. She brought the subject up to us; we looked into it and agreed. She loves the competitions and does very well at them.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
Good for you daughter, am planning to join him next year and he'll be 6 1/2yrs old then. That's what am worrying of, if he get injured, and if that things happen its me to blame, at least now i have a peace of mind and i actually talk to him if he wants to join, and he told me not, maybe next year.
I also know that involving childs to sports help them build their confidence and self esteem, this can make them independent in some ways too, but for me its too early for my son to learn that. By the way thanks for sharing..
@syain1972 (1011)
• Singapore
18 Jun 07
I'd enrolled my son in Taekwando when he was six. As he was an active kid, I'd decided to let him join the club. I'd would want him to start young to instil some discipline in him. So far, there has not been any injuries. Next, I would enrol my daughter who would turn five next year for the sport... I think it does tone down their behavior a little.... For your case, there's always next year, don't worry, he'll not lose out on anything....
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
Next year we'll tryin to let him join, and i actually talk to him and he didnt want to. Good luck for you daughter. Thanks for sharing..
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
you've got point there, but i already asked my son and he didnt want to join.thanks for sharing..
@jennypwet (9)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
Hello archer1811!
I think its ok for a 5 year old to join taekwondo. I took up taekwondo lessons when I was 11 and I had classmates who were a lot younger than me. And yes, there were 5 year old girls who could even beat me up! I would encourage having your kid start early in these kinds of sports so they can be trained about discipline at an early age. Don't worry about your kid getting hurt that much since in taekwondo, the starting levels are just basic kicks and formations. its when they get to a higher level that they start sparring or fighting with each other. Nonetheless, I'm sure your school would have the protective gear for these.
I wish your kid all the best when you do decide for him to join taekwondo! :D good luck! I bet he's going to have lots of fun!
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
And so you're a black belter now? Good for you, if ever somebody wants to hurt at least you know how to fight back to them, but i dont want to happen that to you of course i care for my friend, my son dont want to join the clinic and he said to me that next year he'll try to.Thanks
@artsantos (9)
• Brazil
18 Jun 07
i would let..
its cause its cool, healthy and useful, cause we live in a danger world
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Archer you don't have to worry about ruining your childs happyness by not letting him signup for taekwondo. There will be many times during your childs life that you have to say no to things that he wants to do. saying no does not ruin a childs happyness. Childen have to learn to deal with disappiontment and it is easier for them to learn when they are very young. Now as for yourgetting injuries in the sport. Usually these activites are geard to the age of the child so that they are not suppoded to get enjuries. Why not visit with the instructer?
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
Im planning to but i already convinced my husband to let him go next year. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
@Commonsense0 (516)
• United States
26 Jun 07
oh and you have terrible grammar, sorry just thought id point that out...
@Commonsense0 (516)
• United States
26 Jun 07
There are people at my TaeKwon-Do school that are 4...its never too young, TaeKwon-Do tournaments( sparring) arent full contact you know...
@princejayevents (1245)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
actually it is good for your son to start young. how i wish i could have started young also. i am now 20 years old. i started taekwondo when i was 17 but i already competed in different competition locally from inter-school to national competitions.