romance : a booster or a way of love???

I think that romance is a state of being. It is not just a kind of spice that you use to spice things up in your recipe of love. I also do not think that you have to be romantic all the time in order to maintain your relation or to make your partner happy. Romance has more to do with your state of mind, the musings of your heart, the whispers of your soul...You catch glimpses of it because too much romance can ruin love. You only dip your toes in the pool of romance because to dive into it may cause you to drown. The object is not to overwhelm, but to tickle the senses, to wake up playfulness, to frolic...It may appear that it's just a way to spice things up, but it goes deeper than that.