Is she really a good friend?

She isn't a friend at all. I had that happen to me, now he's with her and I want nothing to do with her. Worse, before he moved out, she came over here and begged me not to take MY SON away from HER, because I was thinking about moving back to New Jersey to be closer to my family. So I don't want her anywhere near my son. If his dad wants to spend time with him, he comes over here and spends time.

She was not playing a game. She wanted your husband and took him. She is a horrible friend and took advantage of your friendship to get to your husband. I am sorry, if my friend did that, I would not let her back into my home, life, and I would not be her friend. I would also change my phone number so she won't be tempted to call my husband while I was gone. As far as your husband, he had the same amount of responsibility to take in this situation. I would pack his bags and make him move in with her. Geez that is horrible. I can't belive that there are people out there that say they are your friend and then turn around and stab you in the back. I hope this will all work out for you.

Hello Nnennaya!(",) I don't think that she can be called a friend after all. What kind of person will do that thing? It's really a horrible situation but I do hope you are finding yourself now and starting a new life. Is your husband still with you or did he moved out with her? I'm really sorry that it happened to you. I think at some point you learned something from this experience that will make you a stronger and even wiser person. Great day and keep telling your children that you love them so much!(",)