When relationships fails..
By raijin
@raijin (10345)
Philippines
June 17, 2007 9:55am CST
Who's most likely to be blamed, men or women? If ever the relationship ends up in a not-so-nice way, was it the guys fault? Is it correct that sympathies always goes to women, than men?
If there is a story you know pertaining to this topic, can you share it?
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6 responses
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
19 Jun 07
I've always believed that a couple is 100% responsible for themselves and 50% each responsible for the relationship. I failer relationship has to be equally attributed to both parties. Unless of course either person is just a cheat and a liar or they didn't really care for each other in the first place. True love should be able to overcome anything. Communication, openness and honesty are the keys.
I doubt very much that "sympathies always goes to women". A failed relationship can change more than just the lives of the two people involved.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
That's what I also have in mind, I always think that both parties have the same responsibilities in handling and taking care of the relationship.
There are also some cases where only one person suffers all the setbacks, because the other one is a pathetic CHEAT!:)
Thanks, I really appreciate your opinion!;)
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@naadia (828)
• India
19 Jun 07
i am brokeup with my boyfriend.i tried to understand what went wrong but cant find a perfect answer.now i want to forget all things.i dont want to blame anyone i think it is fate,if i blame someone for this things go more bad.i have experienced this.all breakup in this world because of very very small misunderstanding.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
17 Jun 07
This totally depends on the situation. If the guy was cheating then it was his fault if the girl was cheatng then it was her fault. Every relationship is diffrent and ends for diffrent reasons. So this is really something that is individually based.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
That's very true, it's just that the stigma is still there. That when break-ups occur, men are mostly blamed, especially when the news has already spread to all those whom are primarily involved. Men always gets the guilt feeling, because they where the easy targets for the blames and accusations.
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@Palace_Girl (416)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
My sympathies goes to my friend. lol
No, that was a joke. I think both parties should be responsible for their relationship. We should not go blaming our partners or anyone else for failure. If couples want to work out the relationship, it is them who should handle it, the same goes if it fail. Im sorry raijin if i didnt made any sense, im quite bitter at the moment... Honesty is very important and trust. Lies only muds the relationship.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
I understand you, as I also went to that situation you are having right now. But I can safely say that I've recovered a little for that predicament I've been through, it is because of those people around me who truly loves me. From friends and family, even here in mylot, they all helped me to understand the situation more..
I hope that you do the same thing, try not to think more of what had happened from the past..
Take care, God bless you!;)
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
i think both parties are to be blamed here. because in order for a relationship to work is give and take. its not just giving and giving while the other is just taking everything that was given. its a two way process, one speaks, the other should listen and the same thing must be done to the other. if cheating is the case, then the person who was cheated should have done everything to satisfy the partner. etc
