Update on weekend happenings

Canada
June 17, 2007 4:52pm CST
Well I have to say our weekend was a blast. I stayed at my daughters place Tursday night and we left early Friday morning. We got to the city, got twisted in our directions and I had a bit of a scare (Heart related problems) however nitro spray got me through. Once we found the area we were looking for we did our shopping and what fun we had. My daughter wanted to shop at Old Navy and I knew there was nothing there for my fat body but I desperately wanted to get some waxing done. Eye brows and upper lip. Well I really don't spend anything on myself and therefore I know very little about these places but I thought it looked interesting. My daughter was going to drop me off at this place then continue on to Old Navy then come get me when we were done. Well being the caring person she is she couldn't just let me go in alone, she had to come into the shop and she looked around. Now I know I have to be careful as to what I say and not make it look like I discriminate against anyone, but OMG you had to see it to believe it. This place had probably 5 or 6 women and one man running the telephone and 2 men doing anything from pedicures to manicures. The one fellow was absolutely coofy looking, I'm sorry but he had big patches of different colored hair he wore pointed shoes, I have no idea how he could wear such a thing you have no idea. He wore a mask so none of the shavings from the gel nails he was working on would hit him in the face well as luck would have it he came up to see what we wanted and I couldn't hear what he said and he realized I couldn't hear because of the shield he wore over his lips and when he took it off and spoke my daughter absolutely couldn't help herself she started to laugh and had to walk away and she never laughs at anyone but you had to be there. It was just too funny. She finally left me there and I ended up getting the works. I had eyebrow and lip waxing, I had a full set of gel nails and even a pedicure, man was that nice. That was the highlight of my day. The prices were dirt cheap compared to our prices. We then went for supper. We ate at Olive Garden and what a place that was. I loved it and the food was to die for. I would go again and again. Then we checked into our room. We had reservations for a super 8 and the room was very comfortable. Two huge beds and a very clean room. We changed and my daughter made the discission she had done enough driving so we took a taxi and of we went to the casio. That was a blast and the sights you see there is entertainment in itself. We saw one fellow win a jackpot and a little old lady ran up it almost looked like she had hopes she'd get some of his cash. We had many laughs. My daughter may have spent 50 dollars but she left with 150.00 so she did well. Momma on the other hand, Well lets just say I lost my 50.00. We played a long time on that amount and had a most wonderful time. The taxi ride was something else but for good reason I can't share it all. The one thing I can share though is my daughter suggested because we were in a big city and without men we shouldn't take our purses and I agreed. Well my smart daughter had brought along a zip lock baggie and in there she put her 50.00, my 50.00, my medical cards and nitro spray. Well I kept back 10.00 to pay the taxi and my daughter said, "Mom I don't think 10 dollars will cut it." Moms' know best right ? NO not always. I kept back 10 dollars and my daughter was fast to take the back seat so there I was with 10 dollars in my hand and the money is in the baggie. Well lucky for me she was also watching the meter but I had no way of knowing that. Imagine how I felt when the meter reached 12 dollars and we're still not there. I thought Oh man how embarrasing. Then finally my girl guietly asks me to pass her the baggie and I thought Oh Thank You God. Well I passed the baggie and in no time my girl hands me another 10 dollars over my right shoulder. Well how funny if you could have seen the cab driver. Lucky he was able to keep the car on the road. I don't think he ever took his eyes off my hands. We decided later he was probably wondering if we had a gun or perhaps drugs in the bag. We were better prepared for the ride home. Thank You all for reading this and especially for your prayers for a safe weekend it got me home safe. Please Mothers if you get the chance do a Mother/Daughter bonding. It's wonderful. Happy Fathers Day for all the Dads today !!!
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13 responses
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
18 Jun 07
It definitely sounds like you and your daughter had a fun weekend together as well as an interesting and funny one as well. It is definitely nice for parents and their children to spend time together when they have the chance. Me and my parents get together once a week. We went to church together today and had a nice lunch. I am treating them to a Blue Rocks game on saturday night.
• Canada
18 Jun 07
Good for you that you're enjoying your parents. We really do not sometime realize how short life can be. I'm glad you're doing different things together. They're lucky to have you as you're lucky as well. I was 25 when my dad passed away and at 56 I still miss him lots.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
18 Jun 07
oh what a wonderful weekend, I feel I can kind of live vicariously through your adventures! if you do not already - please keep a journal of these wonderful outings with your daughter... stories of the events that occurred just like you did here for us. they will become a beloved treasure for your daughter and grandchildren in the generations to come. Thank you for sharing your endearing tale with us.
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
That's an awesome idea. I used to write a journal then for some reason I quit. I don't think I ever totally lost interest because it still sounds like a good idea. We had a lot of fun.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 07
It certainly sounds like you had a wonderful time again and I am so glad you did with everything you have been through you certainly deserved that I can tell you are like me you love your Time with your Daughter like I love my time with my Kids it is so precious
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 07
Yes you are right my 2 Kids tell me that on the Phone every Day to one is 23 and the other 20 and it is great to hear it every Day
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@shoelover (896)
• Australia
17 Jun 07
Oh it sounds like you had a wonderful time. I'm so happy for you. Spending quality time with your daughter is the best gift you can ever have. She will remember that weekend with happiness. I miss the fun I used to have with my Mum but I do remember all the good times we shared. Thankyou so much for sharing with us.
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• Canada
17 Jun 07
Your memories will always be precious and I know after I'm gone my dauggter will be in your shoes remembering all the laughs and good times. We have truly had some good times her and I.
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@bkfuels (1603)
• Canada
18 Jun 07
Well it sounds like the two of you had a good time and did a lot this weekend. Myself all I did was work. I work in a restaurant so tonight as a fathers day treat I brought home food for me and my husband. Other then that I really did nothing.
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@bkfuels (1603)
• Canada
18 Jun 07
Thank you for asking my one eye is good now, the other one is getting done on Sept. 4th.
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• Canada
19 Jun 07
Oh thank God for that!!!We don't know how important eyes are till we can't see. Sept. 4th, you'll be glad when that's behind you. Thank You for your comments.
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
You did a lot in my eyes. You went to work that in itself means a lot and then you even took supper home for hubby. I think you did well. I hope your eyes are doing well too by the way.
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@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
17 Jun 07
What a wonderful way to spend quality time with your daughter. My daughter and I live together but sometimes we take off for a few days and have a mini vacation where we visit the sites, etc. On Mother's day she took me to the Pechanga Casino and it was a lot of fun. Have a good evening.
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• Canada
17 Jun 07
naty Thank You so much for your comment, I appreciated hearing from you. Have a good eveing as well.
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@brendalee (6082)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I am glad you had a wonderful time with your daughter. I think its great that you got to spend some time with her. I always wanted a daughter but I got blessed with a son instead.lol. I don't get to do many fun things with him like I could with a daughter but we still have a great relationship. I just can't see him going with me to get my nails done unless it is a very cute girl doing them.lol.
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
Yes good point re: nails but if you ever come to Canada I'd love meeting you and we could go get a manicure. You may need to settle for going with your son to a movie, bowling or maybe out for a nice meal. Either way enjoy the relationship as long as you possibly can. Take Care.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Well now that was an awesome fun filled weeknd. I am glad you had such a blast. That nitro is scary for me as far as taking care of dad. He has nitro pills in case he has heart pains. But I know he forgets things TOO easily. So I am afraid if I am not here is when he will have that heart pain and not remember the pills. They are right beside his chair too. Anyhow glad ya had a great weekend. Glad to see ya back also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
• Canada
18 Jun 07
Thank You for your kind remark. Yes it is scary dealing with heart problems but I'm lucky in the fact that I know when to use my nitro spray. Your dad is truly lucky he has you or I don't know what he'd do. I read your post about your brother, doesn't sound like he's been much help. I'm sure all us caregivers will have a special place in heaven hehehe. I wish you could get away for a weekend too. Just you and Grandma Deb.
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@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I had so much fun reading this! It is so touching. Makes me long to do a weekend getaway with my daughter! However, she still lives at home and is getting ready to go to college. We frequently do 'girls day' where she and I go shop and eat lunch and leave hubby and brother here at home. When she gets in college I"ll have to go there and do some fun things with her on the weekend! Problem is, hubby will want to go!!!!
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
Oh there's nothing worse than trying to shop with a man. Maybe hubby and brother can go to a movie or whatever? Either way Enjoy !!! Thank You for your comment, good to hear from you.
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
It sounds like you had such a great time hun, I am So happy for you! Last week my parents came down for a week, and we had a nice visit too! I wish my parents lived closer, I'm in Canada and they are in the States. It would be nice to do a mother/daughter weekend like that sometime. I think when my daughter gets older we will do that! Thanks so much for the great idea!
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
Sad to say but before my heart attack we never did anything like this but after I had my heart attack it woke us all up as to how fast our life can come to an end. I would never give up this once a year mother/daughter bonding weekend for anything.
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
I agree that it is sad that your mother/daughter bonding time didn't happen until after you had such health problems. I think when my daughter gets older I will do those mother/daughter weekends no matter what. Thanks again for the great idea!
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@KissThis (3003)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Well, it sounds like you ladies sure know how to have a fun packed weekend. I am glad that everything went well for you this weekend. Its nice that you and your daughter will have some lovely memories. I espeically love the srory about the waxing place. Wish you had a photo of the gentleman that you first talked to.
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• Canada
19 Jun 07
OMG there is a story there. He was funny before he ever spoke, those shoes and one foot going east the other west and then the way he bellers to speak. You had to be there. We're still laughing and Yes we do have fun !!!
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• United States
18 Jun 07
Sounds like you had a wonderful time. It was great you got to spend time with your daughter and her family. My mom lives a few states away and my family and I love it when she gets to come and visit. Nothing is more wonderful than spending time with those you love.
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• Canada
18 Jun 07
I know I am so lucky that way I live only about 3/4 of an hour away from my daughter. I'm very grateful. Thank You for your comment.
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@pranav04 (67)
• India
18 Jun 07
Hi, every body can enjoy week end with love & joy. thanks
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• Canada
19 Jun 07
Thank You for your comments. I appreciate hearing from everyone. Take Care
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