If your husband wants to do for you something, would you accept or deny?
@gayathripraveen (204)
India
June 18, 2007 12:04am CST
Hi friends, What will you do if your husband or boyfriend wants to wash your clothes manually? or cook the lunch? or clean the utensils? which is your(wife/girlfriend's) work in the house. Will you think that let him do, I too see how he will do? But I cant accept. If he pleads me that he had some happiness in that, then I will let him do.
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@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
18 Jun 07
If my husband offer to help me to do all the housework you mentioned, I will be very pleased and let him to do it. Frankly he is not a lazy person, but he hasn't offered to clean the utensils since we are together. Most of the housework is done by me though I have to work and earn almost the same paid as him.
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@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
18 Jun 07
if my boyfriend want to do something for me, I think I will accept at most time.
when he want to help me wash clothes, or clean the bed room , or wash the dishes , I will accept for sure.
but if he want to buy a new clothes for me, or buy some gift for my birthday, or buy something else,I will not accept it and I think I can buy them by myself.
when people fall in love , we can share all the work , and we can help each other. no work, especially the house work should be done by one of a couple, so share it and accept his help.
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@angela2006 (1845)
• China
18 Jun 07
hi,I do not know where are you from,and according to your words,it seems that in your country these works should be done only by woman.but in our country-China,I do not think that it is up to woman to do homework only.I am a girl,and my boyfriend do these homework together with me every time I do them.we all need to go out to earn money and we all are very busy,so we should share these homework I think.so except he is so tired,or else I will ask him to do homework with me together.
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