My love between two boys

Love triangle is really dangerous. One has to sacrifice or one is to be hurt. Since you are the one who is the decision maker whom to hurt, whom to love for life you can do one thing - a test. Just refrain from both of them by giving any reason or going to some remote place for a period of say 10-15 days. And now see on your own who attracts you more, the old or the new boyfriend. Who is more passionate towards you in the mean time. Only contact them through emails no cell phone too. Observe the difference. Once you arrive a decision just straight way cut off relationship with one of your bf stating any valid reason or simply say the truth. And also assure him that you will remain as best friend for ever but not as lover. I think this tough test must help you to reach a decision and find your true love, that is from your heart. Don't ever repent for losing a lover. You will be happy with your choice. Hope this will help you.

yeah. I think u must think over it again. u must ask yourself which one u feel better. huh. don't fall in love with two at the same time. I think the choice is very difficult for u to make now. so u can keep the present for sometime. u may view the other boy as normal friend. huh. and u can rethink it after a few months. by then, if u think u'd better to break up with ur boyfriend , so u just do it without any hesitation . huh.

You should consider you're boyfriend the most, give him the benefit of the doubt and be fair to what he's showing you. He should be your first priority, be reasonable, for both of you have responsibilites with each other now. I guess what you're feeling for the other guy is just infatuation, or maybe you are just impressed of what he is showing you right now.

you will never be happy if you keep on being like this because you will find some things the other one does not have and always compare one from each then you get confuse.you have to focus on one or else the relationship suffers,there is always someone better than the one you have, all you have to do is use your heart as to whom does it beat harder.

In the present day social context loving more than one person at a time is not considered as fair. But we have heard that polygamy existed in the society in ancient times. Even now some religions/castes go with polygamy. I am in love with my wife and she too loves me. I am also in love with another woman and I know she too need me badly. I haven't told it to my wife but my lover knows that I am married and I love my wife. I don't know it is right or not, but it is there. I don't want to hurt none. Both have different characters, life styles. They differ in many aspects. I won't try for a comparison. All I know is that I love both and both of them loves me. Carryl, I too am in a dilemma as to how to tackle the situation in the prevailing social norms. Thank you for asking.

You can't have both of them...maybe you should talk with your boyfriend first before having another relationship. Stick to one, remember the consequence?...It's better not to hurn someone's feeling.