How will you know if you are in love?

Philippines
June 18, 2007 11:24am CST
Since I am single since birth I don't know what's the real feeling if I was ever in love. Maybe I'm just infatuated with some guys I knew but I am not really sure if I was ever in love. So how will you know if you are in love?
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10 responses
@xuliwei (260)
• China
29 Jun 07
Hi!It's very easy to know.If you have falled in love to someone,you will always think of her,hope she will appear in front of your face and hope she is willing to talk to you.You will like to look at her but you are a little afraid to do this.If she also love you,there will be many communications between your eyes.Falling in love is a very good thing.You should be brave at that time and she will like that.Good luck to you!
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
wish i was brave enough if i like someone maybe i can totally fall in love then. but i am a girl, in our culture men will be turned off if i made the first move.
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
hmmm thanks for the insight. i guess it is by tradition that girls do not make the first move. well might as well one of these days i might break the tradition. hehehe
@xuliwei (260)
• China
3 Jul 07
Hi!my friend,I had been thinking you were a shy boy.If you fall in love with someone,you should not be shy whether you are a girl or a boy or you will miss him and that will make you feel regret all the time.you should change your mind.Everything is changing.That a girl act first is very common now.It's not a losing-face thing.
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
you rather become a slave than a master of yourself. you would do everything to please her. you would sacrifice anything, your studies, your allowance, your time, just to be with her and closer to her. the funny thing is you seemingly be likened to a person with psychiatric disorder or simply a mad person. falling in love really makes you crazy. you want to praise and say good things about her all the time. you want to talk about her anytime, anywhere. as others are saying, you can't sleep, eat and focus on things you want to do. quite disturbing but makes you happier.hahaha.
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
hmmm it is something that i wll never understand because i think i haven't experienced this things so far. i now conclude that i am only infatuated everytime i feel something for someone. :)
@pendragon (3349)
• United States
18 Jun 07
You can't eat ,you can't sleep, you always wonder what the person is doing, how they're feeling, you want to buy them presents, you always want to bring them joy, surprise them, call them all the time,it's not hard to mistake, but you'll probably be the last to know anyhow,lol.
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Minus the eating and sleeping part, I do all that to the person I like. Well maybe I'm just infatuated. Oh well maybe I'll be that last to know :)
• India
7 Jul 07
mhen we becoming moren possive person with some one , that time we can identify we felt in love ..... it may friendship ,relationship, lifepartner whatever in may be the feeling is same.
@Wulfric (160)
• India
18 Jun 07
Exactly.. When you will fall in love, you will surely understand it by instinct None will need to tell you anything
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
I wonder when will be the time that I will be able to tell myself I'm in love. I should know by that time. I wanted to feel it for the first time.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
actually it depends on the person..you'll just know it when you feel it..you cam't explain it well by words..you'll just know it..
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Yes maybe because after all love is only a feeling :)
• United States
7 Jul 07
I believe people can tell if they are in love with someone..they feel it in their heart and in their spirit ..everything feels right when you are with the one you love;)+
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
5 Jul 07
I know I am in love with someone when I cannot control my feelings. When I cannot stop thinking of him -- then I know I feel love. If it is a crush or infatuation, then I know I can shut him off and think of someone else; even plan a date with another for a later time. But, if I cannot do that and do not want to see anyone else, continue to think of him all day into the night, look forward to seeing him again and put aside all others, I am in love. It has been wonderful when I have felt that way. I have had many a crush, but have been in love only a few times to the point of forsaking all others, including friends, to be with him.
• China
7 Jul 07
when I fail in love,I feel awful wonderful.I love to chat with him,talk about everything to him,sitting besides him,and watch him doing things...nice feeling!
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
If you feel of being crazy then that's it....lol