What do you do?

@KaseyLah (142)
Canada
June 18, 2007 7:30pm CST
What do you do when you have a bestfriend, who you feel isn't there for you anymore. Like all of a sudden, he/she jut drops you out of their life, they stop calling, and etc? Do you talk to them about it? What do you do ? Or suggest to do ? Do you just forget and find a new one? After everything you 2 have been through or what?
1 person likes this
4 responses
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
3 Jul 07
I would always understand her/him because they have their own life to take care and maybe he/she's busy with her work. If she can't call you then why don't call her and ask her what happen so you'll know. I am sure she/he always remember you for sure...maybe busy of his work so cheer up...give him/her a call.
@chelseea (74)
• Canada
20 Jun 07
i think i know who you are talking about and i think that you should talk to her but remember its okay i have more than one best friend! Don't forget if you have ANYTHING to talk about i'll be here!
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
19 Jun 07
If he is a very good friend and you really know each other, ofcourse you have to talk to her and ask her what is going on, maybe she was hurt by you,and you did not realize that, maybe she has some trouble in her life, and she disconnects from her friends because she wants to focus on solving the problem. You have to talk to her, and then decide how you act.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
19 Jun 07
I have had that happen to me. My best friend suddenly found a guy to date. I was with her when they fought, when they had happy times and when they decided to move in together. He also had two children and she had never had any. When I would call, she would be busy doing one thing or another. I finally just gave up. We had done everything together on our days off etc. It really hurt. I recently bumped into her and she acted like nothing could be wrong, but knowing her, if I had been the one to do it to her she would have had a fit. I found other friends since her and feel like they are better friends because they stick with me now. Find new friends. Anyone who just drops you isn't worth the time and effort.